It seems I need to make some things perfectly clear to all you Dominants; "Actively Seeking Friends Only" means just that. If and when I decide to change my mind, I'll change my status.
I will not sleep on the floor at the end of your bed. I will not be you and your husband's personal sex slave. I will not be humiliated, objectified or otherwise degraded in any way whatsoever.
"Earning" the "privilege" of wearing your collar is beyond insulting. If a submissive chooses to wear your collar, it is *you* who should feel honored.