I am a soon to be divorced man with a young son who lives with me a good deal of the time. I am not a participant in the bdsm "scene" and don't have any interest in it. I find my self in search of a woman who knows she is submissive, perhaps somewhat of a masochist, and with a bit of a slave mentality. With all that she has a mind of her own and freely uses it. I am a very loving, and yes very gentle man, when the time is right for gentleness. I am not a man who wishes to give constant direction and impose rules and dictate punishment. You are an adult and know what is expected, and knows what to expect. Along with all that, family is most important to me and a girl who has a child or children would be most welcome. One that wants to have a child is welcome as well. I do now and will always have a loving family (my son and I) with a happy home, and healthy, well raised children. Even while we privately share a unique life, it will be full of love and devotion from me. You will never doubt my love for you.