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richard4john

I could give all types of bull shit that you would like to hear and what I can do, but this is my philosophy on these matters: I believe you must design your life, your environment and create an atmosphere of trust before you embark on this journey with another. Many will take your body, but I know how to take you mind (with some Jedi mind tricks, Ha.) What a pet/sub/slave can be, the pet/sub/slave MUST BE. It's not about the EVENTS, but the CONTROL. Female subs and slaves, let's visit about the possibility of your service. Contact me. I am a single Dominant man, seeking my life partner. She is intelligent, submissive, slender, feminine, and most importantly, she is emotionally available. I'll write more about my likes and dislikes, but a lot of that stuff is superficial. In my experience, the most important part of compatibility in a serious relationship is the ability to open one's heart to another person. The flip side of that idea is that when someone opens their heart to you, you must treat it with the utmost care and respect.I have a good job at a high tech company, and my education is in computer programming and software engineering. I own my home, and I drive a stick shift car, though I ride my bicycle to work. I have a small sailboat and I love to sail on the bay. My latest passion is singing Sacred Harp, despite having been raised Jewish and actually being an atheist. I'm in the process of building a patio in my backyard, and when that's done I'm going to build a deck next to it.My kink has been trending away from S&M and towards B&D and D&S. I'm very good with rope bondage, and I'll gladly dish out a spanking or a paddling when it is called for. I'm more interested in an competent, eager, obedient girl who I can nurture and mentor. my pics; http://focushawaii.com/model-talent/jacobl/jacobl.htm Solitary man-searching I am seeking an ancillary, (slave, sub, the exact word is unimportant), for long term service; for the right woman possibly permanent. Me? I am a retired Army officer who is finishing a degree in grad school. I am moderately intelligent and curious. My hobbies are history, reading, riding, and firearms. As to my personality; I am self –aware. I tend to usually be reserved. I believe in good manners and being a gentleman. (We southerners believe in graciousness.) I went to a military college and served twenty years on active duty in the service. From this my tastes and predilections have developed. As to my ancillary, she must understand that she is a prized possession. As such, she must also realize that possessions are cared for and protected. This includes the proper usage, conditioning, training and disciplining of the property. Questions feel free to write.
Simpleslave101
 
 Age: 38
  Illinois