Although I have had an interest in BDSM for many years I have only very recently taken the plunge to try and actually fulfil my fantasies.
I am honest.Honest to the extent that I will admit that I am married and am only looking for a part-time relationship.
I am well educated(finishing a Degree at present) and have a wide range of interests.
I am probably a true masochist in the sense that I can obtain satiafaction from a lot of the right kind of pain.But living in provincial NZ and having limited opportunities to travel I am also realistic enough to know that I am probably not going to find what what I am looking for here.Hence my willingness to compromise and maybe find a submissive in Hawkes Bay for our mutual pleasure.