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Female Submissive, 37, Northeast, Tennessee
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Female Dominant, 36, Melbourne
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Male Dominant, 47, central iowa, Iowa
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About respectfulDom123
I am a very nice person, easy going and fun. I love being dominant, and it is a natural part of who I am. In my next woman, I look for trust, honesty, sensuality, eagerness, flexibility and fun. Since my profile shows my serious search, I filled out the interests section as completely as I could. As a Dom I like to be primal, teasing, rough and tender. I love to use my wonderful imagination to be creative in my approach to all this. To me the most important word in D/s is 'nuance', I love to pay attention to my sub.
I am 55 and live in Santa Cruz, CA. I am in shape and have a fun bunch of hobbies. I truly value family and friends, I practice a high level of integrity, and I love to be there for the people close to me.
I look for a kind and gracious woman to have a deep connection with. A woman with a petite to med. build, feminine, and of course, with a good sense of humor. Chemistry is so important and I look forward to finding that woman, that fits me well. These days I look for circumstances that just naturally seem to fall in place. I look at the women I might meet in the same way. My words will call to you, or not. When two people are meant to be friends or more, they both will know it. High end communication is so important, I will notice if you value that as well.
What I'm looking for in my next woman is so very special and significant, that I just can't settle for anything less. That one person to truly connect with, to be in a committed LTR, where two people have such a deep bond, coupled with D/s, to where everyday is just a beautiful adventure.
I don't use the terms master or slave. Yet that same intense level of trust, surrender, responsibility, control, and loyalty is where my heart lies. A complete and total power exchange is not something to be taken lightly, a responsibility that I will gladly take on with the right woman. My next woman is looking for that special man, to fully trust and to surrender to, to allow herself to fully express herself in her submission.
My job is to protect and nurture, guide and direct, to help her be the best she can be in all areas of her life. To me she will surrender, to follow my lead. Our private space will be a sanctuary to fully explore the kinky sensuality...the eroticism, the closeness...that can only be there with that level of absolute trust.
If this calls to you and you fit into what I am looking for, then say hello. Best wishes.
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Ya know whats a shame? I see so many new submissive women, have an epiphany, about who they are, about coming to terms with being a sub. Then they come on this goofy site, excited about perhaps finding a Dom to explore this world with. Then, perhaps give a little too much info..are too honest..and then due to the rude men, they are horrified by the bad manners, and take their profile down. (I've seen this more times than I can count)
These women are very well-meaning, sincere, honest to a fault. And these scared little men,(who call themselves a freakin dom, who probably can't even look themselves in the mirror)..become mean and rude, and drive sincere lovely people away from here.
Of course nothing can be done about this. Its like everything else in the world, there are good people, and there are knuckleheads...... But if you are a new sub woman, be light on your info, tread lightly, be vague(good god, never use the term "slave"..that brings out the worst)..and true Doms who want a woman of quality will seek you out. One thing that is necessary, is when reading a profile...read between the lines! Good luck. |
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I think often of how deep two people can go within the bond of D/s? I like the articles I've read about how a "dom/sub relationship 'can' be more honest and cerebral, than others who choose a vanilla type of connection".
I know of people, outside of bdsm, who practice tantric sex, they take the intimate connection they have with another to another spiritual level. I googled 'tantric bdsm', and there are some thought provoking essays out there for sure.
I'm noticing that is where my attention lies, in forming that deep bond with one special woman. Holding everything kinky and rough in a spiritual light can be a revealing exercise for sure! |
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