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42 year-old heavy masochist and submissive. Ive been into kink since before my first-grade girlfriend and it has been a part of nearly all of my important relationships.
I crave myriad things in the genres of pain, fear, mindfuckery, bondage, sensory deprivation, and giving away control. Looking for a localish (within a couple hours travel) partner or partners who communicate honestly and play safely.
My ideal partner would be a woman or non-binary person* (see below) 30-55 years old who has the room and capacity to grow to have some level of emotional connectedness, but Im also willing to try play with no expectations for further attachment, if that is your thing.
I am happily married to my spouse who is my rock, my best friend, my cheerleader, and sometimes my service top. She is enthusiastically supportive of my efforts to find a close relationship with a dominant playpartner.
*though I identify as straight and male, Im a bit genderqueer and find many androgynous people of all genders very attractive. Ive never been with a man before romantically or in BDSM, but would definitely give it a try, esp if you dont smell like a bear.
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