The name is a clue. For many years I have been successful in almost everything I have done. This has resulted, in what some would say, having a good life and being very comfortable. The only thing I have not been successful in is finding my 'Ideal Partner', resulting in very long and lonely nights and weekends. I do not have a description of my Ideal Partner, the only stipulation is to have a common interest and a willingness to 'submit', I am not into Extremes but by the same token I am not soft.