We are a couple that has been sexually experimenting privately. Only had one field trip but it was very, very successful. We understand ourselves, sexually, and we are ready for the real thing in a special relationship. Reaching out for a submissive, or maybe switch, woman who is 35 or older, with no upper age limit, and who still thinks young while being mature minded and responsible. We're adaptable to the exact type of relationship we would enjoy. It can be a sexual friendship or something more significant, socially, and even live-in. No matter what, we don't want casual play and will choose long term if we can. Matt is not new to the scene, dominant with understanding and knowledge given by experience. Jan has been learning to submit for six years, bi with little experience, and could possibly switch with another female. We know that this lifestyle can be exciting and we want that excitement, but we also want friendship with someone that wants to share more than just sex. We think we can be a sanctuary for somebody who feels trapped and frustrated in life. We're an educated, well-rounded couple with a lot of likes. We're not doing the checklists because we don't want anybody to think that we only seek somebody who has all of our likes and dislikes. Much more interesting to learn and show new interests. We don't think anybody can get to know us by just reading a checklist and that's not how we want to get to know somebody else. Let's work on people skills, to get things started!