You cannot have real sex? Then say it on time, so that sub knows what she is into. Do not missuse the situation of dom/sub. Do not make sub feel bad for something which is not her fault. A dom/sub relationship is something very very special- something you do not find easily. Its more than with the heart, its body, mind and soul. 

I do not understand why vanilla men are pretending to be a dom. They are waisting everybodys time. You are looking for a "kick" in life, then say it. Do not pretend, be honest to yourself. Do not play the "dom" - then you cannot handle it and finally you call a sub crazy or not normal because she is submissive. Hey come on, that is not a fair. Its bullshit!!!!! Go to another page, please do all subs the favour.... thank you