rayzmaster on Collarspace

11/6/2017 9:12:56 AM

If you want to arouse the dominance in my behavior, you need to show submission to me in yours. You need to think of yourself not as a person, but a thing for me to own. Make it clear that my opinion matters to you more than other people's -- ideally, that it's the only one that does. Make it clear you want to be in my presence. When you speak, don't speak of preferences or desires; speak of needs. You need me to help you carry something. You need me to walk you to your car. Be a little shy and demure. It's fine if you're a kick-ass independent woman who don't need no man, can fix a car, do your own plumbing, weightlift in your spare time, and impossibly have a foot and a hundred pounds on me. If, when you look at me, I feel you're looking?up?at me, you are small and lovely in my eyes. I demand blatant favoritism in how you treat me versus how you treat others. If you stare at me and talk to me first when you walk into a room, I will notice that. If you're making bored small talk with other people but light up when I approach, I will notice that. If you step in closer to me and open yourself via body language, I will notice that. Respect me. More than that--worship me. Listen raptly to me. Stay near me. Look up at me. Smile and glance away. If I talk to you look at no one but me. Show weakness. Defer to me. Adore me. Need me. Confide in me. Look to me for help and guidance. Be sad. Be afraid. Be helpless and lost. Make yourself small and tuck yourself against me. If you want me to feel aggressive and dominant with you, you need to make your interest and inclination to submit to me clear. It does not need to be made explicit, once we begin this game I will be focused very intently on you, but you need to send out signal after signal, and trust that once you've sent out enough for me to judge you subservient I?will?move on you fiercely. Things I look for: shy smiles, blushing, downcast eyes, lingering parted lips, facing me, self-touching, lingering proximity, eagerness to please, enthusiasm toward me specifically. There are more, but honestly, this specific example part is the weakest and least important. Body language, the way one speaks, these things vary person to person, and instead of any one individual piece it's clusters that generate significance. The key is to behave in ways that show explicit or implicit giving of yourself to me. This is especially important when we're deeply conversing or interacting more intimately. I want your devotion, loyalty, and submission more clear -- I want to know you're damaged, or desperate, or needy. I want you to cling to me and look to me for approval. And believe me, you will still the princess in public, and the bitch slut in bed