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I think I might be (to borrow a line from Dr.Who) searching for the impossible girl... I am looking for a life partner who has a kink side, but that it doesn't define them, or the relationship. I want to meet someone who I want to be with in everyday life, but also I know I can have an open conversation about our sexual proclivity that they understand...someone who appreciates that a soft caress can be as loving as a spike of pain from a twisted nipple, or a simple hug after a bad day. To quote from Venus in Furs (the Velvet Underground song, not the book) "Taste the whip, in love not given lightly". Lou Reed, RIP. No one who knows me would probably suspect that I have such a deviant, imaginative side. They would think I am pure vanilla...I am most definitely not... So, a bit about me. I have been single for a bit after the end of a long relationship. I think its now time to meet someone new...ideally who has the same outlook as me. I think I'm fairly intelligent and educated, and emotionally, I'm kind and compassionate...unless you ask me nicely...! I am open and creative (and that runs to my sexuality wink) and I like to spend time listening and making music, traipsing around galleries and museums, watching drama; the normal things. I'm looking for someone who is lovely, ideally likes (or at least tolerates the same things as I do) and is interested in a monogamous relationship. If any of this sounds remotely of interest, then I would love to hear from you.
2hard2tame
 
 Age: 21
 Torrance, California