Things people ought to know. 

One- this is technically a joint account for both my pet and myself. I am the one who runs and manages this account, however- so if there is a question about who likes what kink, feel free to ask.

Two- I am not a fan of the term "slave". Slave implies forced ownership over someone who does not want it- I may be a sadist, but I am an empathetic sadist. I don't want to force people into anything (unless of course they want me to.) This is why I refer to my sub as a "Pet". He is collared, we are married as well- he is treated exactly as I would treat a beloved pet- I bathe him, I pet him, I feed him, etcetera. His payback is that he serves and entertains me. 

I am not looking for another pet. If you refer to yourself as a slave, there is a good chance I will ignore you. However, if you are looking to simply be a servant, or a sub, I will be more than happy to talk. 



Men who contact me with a)pictures of their genitalia, or b) telling me how much they are going to "please" me? I laugh at that. 

Unless your cock is 16 foot long and shoots rainbows, it's no better than any other cock. A cock is a cock is a cock. I do not care how big or small your dick is- I care about the man behind it. If you have a personality I deem fitting, then there's a good chance we'll talk more- having a nice body and a nice cock is just an added bonus for me. 

Don't message me telling me how much you'll "please" me. One- it offends me. You know nothing about me. Just because I have specific kinks listed does not mean anyone can just come up and do them to me. Two- There's a very high chance you're not as good or hot as you think you are. 

I'm almost asexual. I am attracted to people by their personalities first. As I said before, having a nice cock or body is nice, but it's just an added bonus. 

Your personality and the way you approach me will indeed be the make or break situation for you. 

BDSM to me... I am far more interested in the trust aspects of it: the idea of subjugation and domination in a emotional sense more so than a physical sense. I understand that some people get aroused by these things, I do- however, this is not how I look at it.


Too long, Didn't read- Sexual aspects of BDSM are secondary to me. I would rather imbue the personal, emotional aspects of it. 


I am a very difficult woman to please sexually, simply because (as I said before) I am nearly asexual. Unless I have a very deep emotional connection with you, sex just isn't happening. Even when I have an emotional connection with someone, sex is simply not very high on my list of things. I find there are plenty of other ways to connect more deeply with someone, and I often do those, instead. 

Basically saying- I don't care if you're Eros incarnate. There's a good chance that you still will not be able to please me- if I let you in my bed. 




I don't sleep around. I outright refuse to take purely sexual submissives under my wing. I will not have sex with a sub unless a) I know they are clean, b) they have connected with me and c) are willing to be with my pet. 

I will NOT have sex with anyone unless my pet is involved. He is my husband, my pet, my other half. Please, respect this. I expect my pet to be treated as well as I am, and if you cannot do that, you will not be considered. 

If you are not bisexual, or not interested in my pet, that is fine. I will still be happy to talk to you, and if your personality is right, there is a chance I will still be willing to Dominate you. Sexual things will not be happening. There's a good chance you won't even be naked around me. 


Now then! If you've read all of that, and are willing to comply, let's talk about the requirements. 

1) Message me on here. Show common courtesy and be polite. As long as you do that, there's a good chance I will message you back. I'm not online all the time, so it might take a week or so for me to message back, but I will. 

2) In your message... Tell me about you! I want to know a basic name that I can refer to you by- either a first name, a last name, a nickname, or the "term" you'd like to be known by (sub, servant, etc. Again, read above. I will not allow the term slave, nor will you be treated like a slave.) I'd like to know the things you're interested in- music tastes, favorite foods, things you like to do for fun. I want to know ways that I can connect with you outside of the scene. Tell me a little about your body type- are you tall? Short? Slim? A few extra pounds? Muscular? Lithe? What's your hair color? Eye color? 

((Something to take note of- I generally do not have problems with age. However, if you are old enough to be my father, there's a pretty good chance I won't be playing with you. I'd prefer men who are no more than 15 years older than myself. That means my current age limit is 35.))

3) If we meet in person, I'd appreciate going to dinner somewhere. I don't expect to go somewhere incredibly fancy, by any means, but going to a fast food restaurant is not going to cut it. I want us to find a mutual, sit down diner that we can talk at, in a relaxed atmosphere.  (I do NOT go to bars. I do not care for their atmosphere. The only "bars" I have ever attended and will ever attend are Hookah bars. I enjoy a hookah every once in a while, and it is a nice place to chill.)

4) Should I decide that I am willing to take you under my wing- Be prepared to show RECENT PROOF of testing. I will not be playing with you (in ANY fashion) unless you can prove to me that you are clean. I and my pet are happy to do the same. 

5) This is simply a personal preference of mine- be showered, be clean, and for the love of god, trim your body hair. Most men do not enjoy getting their teeth flossed when performing sexual acts on a woman, and I feel the exact same way. If you are excessively hairy- count yourself out unless you're willing to trim it back or shave. I do not play with hairy men. ((I do enjoy cologne, but dousing yourself in it does NOT count as a shower. Tasteful men use small quantities of cologne to simply compliment their natural scent.))


A warning to you. If you touch me in any fashion that could be taken as sexual without my prior consent, we are done. I want to treat you as equally as I possibly can, and I will not take advantage of you, but I am still the Mistress you are trying to impress and I expect to be treated as such. That does mean that, when coming to personal matters with myself or my pet, you are to ASK before doing. 


I think this covers most things. As always, if you have questions, please do not hesitate to ask. Though I'm sure the above journal sounds, well... rather bitchy, I am actually pretty laid back. I simply wanted to address my "ground rules" above.