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     Not Sure I Fit In Here.......

    Is it possible to find that special person who shares the right balance of vanilla and more exotic interests?  I am a single white male, age 41 seeking a mature woman who enjoys what the world has to offer.  Age is not as important to me as maturity.  Over the years I have known people in their twenties who were quite professional, and unfortunately others in their thirties (and older) who were the opposite.

    I have thought of kink and submission most of my life, even before I could really comprehend just where my feelings were leading me.  In my late teens and early twenties came exploration of those feelings, along with much learning in the process.

   I know now that I thoroughly enjoy 'play', submission and power exchange.  I have a wide array of interests which include bondage & discipline.  More importanlty is the psychological aspect of giving up control to someone I trust, the pre-scene "butterflies", being held in place while I squirm, and (of course) the deep feeling of submission.

  From reading, speaking with different people, and other experiences I have found that everyone has their own impression of 'D&S' and what it means to them. 

 That said, I am hoping to find someone to share these feelings & regular life as well.  I'm not particularly interested in 'the scene' as I never really enjoyed the available clubs and parties which I attended.  I am not being critical, I just found them not to my personal liking.  I preferred small groups, and mostly private submission.

  I have a wide range of interests, and have a medium sized collection of fetish apparel, crops, floggers, paddles, restraints, and other materials from my travels.

 My vanilla interests include music of various types.  I enjoy attending concerts at Symphony Hall, Jordan Hall, and Tanglewood.  I enjoy 'hole-in-the-wall' clubs to hear Jazz, Blues, or whatever strikes the mood.  You will also find me browsing the import bins in music stores as I enjoy music from around the world.

 I read quite a bit, again a variety of titles depending upon the mood.  This can be anything from history, to the classics, to even more recent classics such as Calvin & Hobbes.  

 I enjoy travel, and would like to explore Europe (Germany, Scandinavia, the UK, Ireland, etc..), Japan and Australia in detail.  I also enjoy US travel, as San Francisco is one of my favorite cities (along with Boston).  

 I hope to find someone who enjoys the activities I mentioned above.  Someone who is independent, intelligent, quirky, and has a good sense of humor.  Someone who is aware of what is happening in the world around them.  Someone who enjoys the different seasons here in New England.  

 I would prefer to find someone who is active, not necessarily a slave to the gym, but enjoys working up a sweat.  I try to stay in shape by running or working out at the local gym.  I like to go hiking, but I have not been able to do that as much lately as I would like.

I have always wanted to learn to sail.

  If you would like to know more about me, please email me and I'll will be happy to answer your questions.


8/28/2011 5:46:55 PM

And so another hurricane passes.  Had the whole beach to myself!

12/27/2010 4:02:45 PM

Mother Nature, I kiss your boots.  You dropped more than a foot of snow on me, so I spent the afternoon shoveling (how did I ever forget to buy a snowblower??).  I am now deliciously sore.  Thank you Mother Nature, I will never say 'no' to you.

12/23/2010 7:10:57 PM

Finally finished my Christmas shopping.

12/21/2010 4:28:12 AM
Let it snow! Let it snow! Let it snow!
11/24/2010 5:42:04 PM

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

11/18/2010 6:33:00 PM

Well, that was a quick year.

11/25/2009 3:24:37 PM
Happy Thanksgiving Day!!!!!!
1/1/2009 7:06:44 PM
Happy New Year!!!!
12/20/2008 4:47:20 AM
It snowed out!  I won't have to dream of a white Christmas!  
11/4/2008 7:53:40 PM
I voted today! Woot!!
12/30/2007 8:26:35 PM
Happy New Year!!
1/1/2007 9:44:21 PM
Happy New Year!! (just wanted to add this year's journal entry)
1/5/2006 1:07:11 AM
Happy New Year!!

(...just trying out the Journal option.)
MissStori
 
 Age: 30
 Thornton, New Hampshire