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What I want! A marriage where I am in charge all the time. To the world we are the cleavers but you always know I am in charge. I want some one who is happy to take care of me, who wants to make all my dreams come true. Who puts my needs first. I want a family man as well. I have a daughter now and will want at least one more child in the next 5 years so that has to be part of your plans. I don't want any young want a bees who think D/s is all about leather clad Whores tying them up and whipping them until they come. I want a mature guy who knows what he wants and is conferable with it. I am not looking to play I want a real marriage with a strong female led BDSM component to it. Don't message me if you are not secure in your life. If you live with your parents or can't support your self. Or if you are over 45 I am sorry but I just can't see my self married to anyone older. I am not jumping in to anything blind. I expect to be wooed you have to show me you really want this. I have already put up with one loveless marriage where my dreams and goals where stomped in to the ground I am not taking that chance again. I know what I want and I am not shy about demanding it. Any message with out the first words "my dearest" will be instantly deleted.
Shykat
 
 Age: 45
 Long beach, California