I've been curious about the BDSM scene for...well...all my life. I've dabbled and played a little from time to time, but now I find myself surprisingly single at 32 and I made a commitment to myself to use the time to seriously explore this side of myself.

"Play" dates sound fun, and I'm not at all opposed to them, but I'm really looking for something that at least has the chance to become a real relationship. I want to be in thrall, in lust, in pain, in chains, but also in love.

Kinky details:

T+D

Chastity

CBT/NT

Bondage

Whips,chains and canes