A multifaceted relationship. In summary what I’m looking for is a deeply intimate multifaceted relationship, one where there is room for all of us. Trying to explain what that looks like outside of the two people involved is a little tricky because it really does depend on the individuals as well as the relationship. That said I’ll try to describe a number of dynamics and interactions that are compelling to me. Like everyone else I have many dimensions. I am, and always have been, a very affectionate, ambitious and dutiful person. I have also always had a very critical, controlling and sadistic streak. I have always loved woman who are open to acknowledging their desperation and their masochism. I need a woman who needs to be sexually hurt AND to be emotionally exposed, abused and engaged. A woman who needs to be seen and engaged as wretched, depraved, wanton and base as much as I need to be seen a desperate, sadistic and demanding. This isn’t just play, it is a willingness to share with each other and affirm the raw and fragmentary aspects of ourselves. My impulse to control is more about pushing than restricting. I don’t like to refuse my woman anything and I rather like indulging them, but I insist they always do more with me than anyone else. I understand the value of a young cunt and want her to enjoy and exploit it, but to both of our advantages with her sharing with me every intimate detail. I also enjoy collaborating with my slave on appearance, diet, exercise, grooming, attire, and surgeries in an effort to make her as beautiful and as sexually seductive as possible. Done right this sort of collaboration can make a woman an object of ardent sexual desire for years and years. I love a young woman’s capacity for sexual activity and enjoy watching my slave enjoy being used by others. It is a voyeuristic thrill to watch her lost in wanton desire. It also fuels a jealousy that can be very hot in subsequent sex and punishment. I want a woman who will be as committed to pleasure as I am. If you should want children that’s fine, but you will agree to have a cesarean so as to preserve your cunt and you will get back in shape after childbirth. I like a woman who can be a lady during public activities as much as she can be a whore when revealed. Someone who doesn’t have tattoos or garish attire when out at the opera. So really just an old fashioned story about love and marriage with a level of passion and perversion not usually found.

== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ == 100% Degradation Giver 100% Dominant 96% Master/Mistress 88% Sadist 83% Non-monogamist 80% Pervert 71% Daddy/Mommy 67% Primal (Predator) 59% Bondage Giver 50% Switch 45% Degradation Receiver 45% Experimentalist 44% Primal (Prey) 41% Vanilla 36% Brat Tamer 29% Voyeur 21% Bondage Receiver 16% Girl/Boy 13% Exhibitionist 11% Submissive 9% Brat 8% Masochist 0% All-Rounder 0% Slave See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=210007

This is a lot of fun:http://nymag.com/thecut/2014/08/weird-trick-to-get-huge-boobs-for-24-hours.html

I love this; good old Rumi “Beyond our ideas of right and wrong,there is a field. I’ll meet you there.When the soul lies down in that grass,the world is too full to talk about.Ideas, language, even the phrase ‘each other’doesn’t make sense any more.”

I recently received a reply from a prospective sub, complaining about my presumption and lack of common courtesy. And while the complaints have merit they struck me as bizarre: I don't think any one here is looking for what is common. I presume that everyone here is open to the transgressive - if not, shouldn't they be on eHarmony?