I am not so much a kinky fetishist. I subscribe to the owner/slave dynamic which to me is a psychological one.  Kinks and fetishes come into it a long way down the list when it comes to finding a suitable slave. Those whose interests predominantly lie in kinks and fetishes are unlikely to interest me. 

I adapt my style of dominance over a variety of submissive styles because I will do what needs to be done to get the reaction I desire from a slave, and that is different person to person. The slave defines a lot of what my dominance looks like, each relationship is uniquely different.

For this reason I cannot paint a detailed picture for you of what life would be like as my property until a dynamic unfolds.

 But what I can tell do is tell you where my dominance does not easily stretch to:

* Constantly needy, whiny types (sissy or not), who feel regularly on the weaker, victimised side of life (this state of being is only attractive to me if I alone induce it in you)

* Unemotional robots who can't express their feelings and see submission as purely physical acts of servitude (I need to understand and be in control of his heart in order to appreciate his gestures).

* Unethical types with little integrity or even those who don't share my values (include here racists, fully blown image conscious narcissists, haters, those who don't value family and who dislike dogs)

* The ignorant and less educated (I don't care what you've studied and to which level, I'm not snobbish, but if you have little awareness of the world around you then we won't have much to talk about).

* Those who don't have as much to invest into a D/s relationship as I do.

Though I never say never to fetishes, my dominance does not currently stretch to:

* sissifiction

* scat, farting, nappies

* myself wearing high heels, boots, latex, corsets, etc. for his pleasure.

* costumes in general

* light spanking. If I’m going to hit, I’m most likely going to hit properly!

No matter what type of slave you are, my dominance will always include:

* A lot of concerted attention. Work, sick relatives etc. always need my time, but even then my thoughts will always be with you.

* Giving and receiving of affection

* Inquisitiveness about how you are feeling, and communication

* Demands for service and challenges to set you.

Emotional Masochism is a state of mind and a way of living that is not complete without a superior being. The masochist realizes his deep desire to surrender to his superior who can provide an ample amount of emotional stability into the life of the masochist.  The masochist’s own existence disintegrates, becoming merely an element within the life of the superior.  Servitude, daily worship acts and genuine inferior attitude towards the superior enlighten the inner soul of the masochist.  Any neglect, abuse or humiliating acts only reinforces what the masochist craves: being at the bottom of the life of the superior. Only when the superior acknowledges her superiority verbally, physically or emotionally, the masochist can reach his long-lasting inner peace.