Just starting out. Looking for advice as I am new to sub lifestyle. Uncertain as to what to seek in a dom for a newb. Financially independent. Single and open minded. Reasonably attractive. Yikes!

Not seeking LTR just yet but also not interested in one time encounters. Looking for someone to work with to better understand if this is something I would really like to pursue.

Why am I here?

I am trying to outsmart myself. J I am very strong and fiercely independent. I wasn’t meant to be this way but have developed over time to be very tough. It serves me well and I am quite happy and successful in the day to day. I don’t need anyone.

However underneath I am someone else. I would like to meet that person and learn more about them. That person is soft, meek, sweet and giving, profoundly so. That person tires of fighting and wants me to be held, forced, bound, made to be true to what I really am at the core. The outward me also desires nothing more than to be able to give in, yet will test boundaries to be certain they are firm perhaps?

It is a scary transition facing your inner self and one best done with a trusted guide, a mentor of sorts.

Granted the sex, the fucking, the pain, ah that will all be quite delightful, beautiful, utterly entrancing but is the icing on the cake of the mindfuck itself. My body can be yours-details sorted out later of course, but can you really tame and control my mind? That’s a bit more challenging. One day someone will get my soul but that’s a whole other story.

You have to be clever, abstract and creative or likely I will get bored and wander off.

I haven’t read other sub profiles. My sub friend said I should just be totally honest so I hope this sounds okay.

(No relocation-Sorry O-hi-O!)