On Domestic chores/service: You're a grown man. So am I. Unless it's a residence we share I am not cleaning your house. Be a responsible adult and clean it yourself. That's not part of my BDSM. I clean my own house and help others when I am politely asked. Make no assumptions simply because I am submissive. It's rude. Rude people don't make good Doms.

That being said, in a relationship since I am submissive I tend to be naturally domestic anyway. I LIKE cooking and cleaning for my man, and I take pride in doing well at it. However, don't just think you can have domestic submission like that unless you want to put a ring on my finger in addition to the collar on my neck. I'm not playing wife unless you plan to be my husband.

And being a "wife" is very much my goal. Want to be a Man's trophy, pet, and toy. I give at least as much as I get even in "vanilla" relationships. I use kinks, fetishes, and BDSM to exercise and build trust within relationships, not just to get my rocks off.