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Protector, Mentor, Trainer, Master & Daddy Dom
-Put this in your profile if you know someone who has survived or died of cancer-
As a Dom of long experience, who now is more interested in guiding women who are new to the scene. I have seen too many young people hurt over the years, and now I hope to do my part, in teaching them the right and safe way to experience our life style.
Dominant with over 25 years living this lifestyle. I am a positive thinker, a great zest for life and a realist. My life requires a strong sense of emotional, physical and spiritual needs, with good sense of humor, wit and a sense of adventure for life. a responsible hard working Man respected within my community, friends (lifestyle & vanilla), and profession.
Although play is fine I prefer to focus on "one".
An excellent communicator who expects the same and understands the responsibility of commitment and welcomes the need to serve with focus on the depths between two that this lifestyle has to offer.
If you are "one" who has a need to serve to be whole, has a sense of reality, can accept the responsibility of commitment, can openly communicate your needs, understand that this dominant will sometimes be your friend, lover, daddy, mentor, teacher, but at all times your Master and partner....then I'd like to hear from you.
Age is not an issue, your heart and soul
The Dominant's Creed
Above all else he cherishes his submissive, in the
knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest of all.
He is demanding and takes full advantage of the power
given to him, but knows how to share the pleasure that
comes from that precious gift.
He is in control of himself first and foremost, so that he
may control others. As a stern and demanding Dominant,
he can cause his sub to cry real tears. As the consummate
lover, he will then kiss the tears away, without ever
stepping out of character.
In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave the roles behind,
to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that
this is still a loving relationship between two caring
individuals. He is quick to understand the differences
between fantasy and reality. He would never ask a
submissive to put him before her career, or family, just to
satisfy his own pleasure.
To win his submissive's mind, body and soul, he knows he
must first win her trust. He will show his submissive
humor, kindness, and warmth. He must also show her that
his guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving
of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from, and
trust his direction.
He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous.
When called upon, he will fight for his ladies' honor. He
proves to her that he is someone she can lean on, and
depend on.
He is old-fashioned enough to be a bit of a chauvinist, yet
modern enough to respect his woman. Quick to point out
the differences between them, he also knows there is no
inferiority in those differences.
When it comes time to teach his submissive her lessons of
obedience, he is a strong and unyielding professor. He will
accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from his
student. Never does he use discipline without good reason.
When he does, it is always with a knowledgeable and
careful hand.
He is a careful guide, with safety always his main concern.
He knows how to use pain to extend the bounds of
pleasure. He is a mentor who can bring her to the edges of
her envelope, and gently show her the inner courage to
reach new heights.
He is always open to communication and discussion,
always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient,
taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her
trust of him grows, so will they.
He never has to demand ritual behavior by her. She
responds to him out the want of pleasing him. Compliance
comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of
punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and
body, and never violates the trust given to him.
He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the absurdities
of life. Courageous enough to accept assistance. Open
minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to
grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit and soul with a little
help from rope, paddle and blindfold. He understands that
each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And
both of them know that love is the only binding that truly
holds.
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