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Definition of sub...a female that retains a small amount of independence in a DOM/sub relationship.

Definition of slave...a female that retains no indepedence in a D/s role.

IF any so-called sub or slave starts off their profile with a list of demands outside of hard limits including pic required blah,blah, blah...please do not make contact with me and disregard any communication that was sent by mistake.

This fundamental attitude will lead to nothing but problems, whining, and chaos.
8/8/2008 8:13:50 PM
The single most important requirement on-line and in-person is to deal with a safe, sane and consensual person. Once that is established, there are protocols that should lead to real-time training sessions or within a reasonable timetable.

Any hint of getting to know being used as a guise to string someone on and on...should be terminated with prejudice immediately. This type of behavior is fundamentally responsible for D/s relationships taking a slow death  out of DOMs in particular getting fed up with way too much BS!!!

Any time a so-called sub or slave is dictating the terms of the relationship...it has gone to the madhouse. And, it will only end in chaos, frustrations, and games being played with no real D/s relationship.
urBBWurQUEEN
 
 Age: 55
 Wheeling, West Virginia