I get that you monitor input to protect your members. If my messages to a particular member are not welcome, when they tell me so, I will cease contact, but isn't it up to the members to decide who they do or do not want to communicate with? If a member gets notified that their contact with a particular member is not welcome, and they continue to make contact , then admin should step in. I'm just trying to make contact, and some of my messages are just joking with some of these women about their restrictions. If they aren't interested they can say so and I'll leave them alone. BTW, it's obvious that some of these messages are from doms trying to control access to their subs, and not from the subs themselves, it's a pretty weak dom who controls his sub by cutting them off from the outside world, if you ask me. Which leaves me to wonder if dating site admins might not be trying to cut off access to members to keep those members to themselves. Sounds just a little bit like pimpin, again pretty weak if you ask me.
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