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A Demanding, Affectionate, and Fun Switchy Bi-Femme - Seeking Ideal Submissives and Switches
Too much to ask for? I think not.
Additionally, if you are too lazy to read the entire profile, don't even bother sending me a message. I just don't DO lazy lovers.
I am communicative, curious, intelligent, witty, creative, assertive, sweet, initially timid, bashful, friendly, sociable, open, honest, articulate, cute, sexy, passionate, slow to anger, but quick to ask for a change in behaviour -IF you're worth it (if I don't think you're worth it, I'll just go away.). I have a few issues, that I deal with openly, calmly, and do my utmost to be strong enough to be vulnerable around people I trust.
I believe in responsible non-monogamy, and polyamoury. I also believe monogamy exists, and is fine, but is an unrealistic lifetime expectation. (Side note: if you would like any further discourse on anything I bring up here, just ask.)
My Ideal's heart should be open, tongue should be true, wit should be sharp and intelligent, and communication be available. I would love having someone who I can grow with.
I am exceedingly particular about who I choose to be with. I have a very open mind, but am limited in experience. I will only choose to be sensual with someone that I trust.
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I have been narrowing down some of the lovely applicants that made contact over the spring & summer. I do believe I am ready to take things to the next step with a few of you.
Others, do not be discouraged. If you are not the right fit for me, you will be the right fit for someone else. That's the beautiful thing about the "kink variety pack."
I do welcome new contacts, however, so please do send messages and understand I take a while to respond.
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It has been a long time, indeed.
I am once again entertaining the option of selecting a submissive or few. The sub for me is intelligent, naturally obedient, interested in service work and lifestyle just as much as the sensual. My sub would have their own professional life, own home, own money, own life. You must be a being of worth in order to give yourself to me.
I will also entertain some switches, so please do contact me if you fit the above description.
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I haven't logged in in a very long time. Haven't found much to my liking here. I am looking for real people, not role-players. For me, it's more than just about the sex. |
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I have, in the last month, pared down my lovers considerably. I have gone from mostly taken to mostly single, by choice. My primary relationship is with myself, and I do not ever see a need to settle. Re-negotiate, yes, settle, no. I have just returned from a wonderful trip and am both exhausted and rejuvinated. I'll get caught up with your emails, here, soon.
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What I'm looking for: LITERATE People within about a 2 hour drive of myself who are able to have a real relationship, whatever we negotiate it to be. Said people should be drug and disease free, and only crazy fun not crazy psycho.
What I'm getting: People several states away, who are in a closed (CHEATING) relationship, or so crazy that they make my padded cell look normal.
I'm really kind of dissapointed with the folks who don't even bother to read my whole profile. If you don't have time or interest to bother reading ONE FRACKIN' PAGE why should I take the time or interest in replying to your message? "Oooh you have a picture," is just NOT a good opening line. Nor is it a good enough reason to meet someone.
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The other thing worth mentioning is... I'm looking for someone in real life, no "online only" folks will do. I'm not here to fulfill your fantasies online. I'm here to actually *gasp* get to know people that I may actually meet. Just an FYI... don't be offended if I don't reply to your request for dominance from seven states away, and certainly don't expect a reply to rude questions and statements. We are, in theory, all adults here, let's act like it. |
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I wonder if there is someone out there who is my complete equal, my ideal match. I am not looking for someone to complete me - I am complete and content already. Being switchy, yet seeming to find people on the opposite ends of the spectrum that seem to be uncomfortable with the complete package, gets my hope to wavier a little. But I do not see a need to settle. I will not be slave nor owner, though I may choose to give or accept power from another who is their own, complete, person. You come to me willingly, and I'll do the same. Free. Willing. Able. Safe. Sane. Consentual. Open. Honest. Communication. What's so hard about that? |
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