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I suspect most submissive males like to think of themselves as unique on the one hand yet not "different" on the other.  People want to be accepted for who and what they are but do not wish to be pigeonholed or labeled. I can be difficult to get to know, My sense of humor can take time to appreciate. Ultimately i am not everyone's cup of sub. I love words. I love playing with them. I love exploring them. I love exchanging them. I even love making them up.So before you let anything i say upset you, please realize that much of what i say represents harmless wordplay and should not be taken seriously.

Ms Sara (Ms Ubemine), my Domme Friend, Protector, Mentor, Trainer and Play Supervisor loves my sense of humor and says she sees it for what it is. She is very protective of my feelings and will happily assist anyone who feels the need to control or correct my behavior. Then again She is more than happy to publicly humiliate me anyway, even if in what She describes as a consensual way. She is training me to be a community slut. I am to serve any and all females regardless of race, religion, sexual preference, level of experience, height, weight, creed, national origin, or preference for leather or lingerie.

The pp in pp_slutboy and in ppsslluuttboy stands for piggie pet (as well as an ever-growing list of other things). She named me piggie pet because i have too often caused myself all sorts of problems by wanting too much too fast and paying too much attention to what i want and not enough to what others do.

I think it is sometimes possible to truly punish a humiliation slut by humiliating him yet still not humiliate him in a way that will hurt him. I am told I can be humiliated in ways that embarrass but do not really harm or hurt me, instead making me stop and think. I am also told that is not a common attribute of submissives and can be quite confusing. Many seem to think that humiliation is simple and humiliation sluts are easily controlled. But i have learned the hard way that if someone attempts to humiliate me in the wrong way it can anger and hurt me. i also know that traditional ways of handling humiliation sluts such as ignoring them or giving them "time outs" can prove very counterproductive. Conversely punishment humilation can still be effective when administered by Someone who knows what She is doing.

I am an intelligent, educated, witty, mischievous, submissive, multifaceted, creative, droll, feisty, unique, male with little real life D/s experience but plenty of life experience. I am married but have found that I need certain elements of D/s so i live the parts of the lifestyle that i can when i can. Having said that, I am here to try to find friends and hope if you have made it through this much of my profile that you might consider becoming one.
amy2bcontrolled
 
 Age: 29
 Hampton, Virginia