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Hello sexy ladies and not so gentle men. I'm looking for people to play with in Calgary, and to have romantic relationships with. I have an absolutely fantastic one now, although as my name implies I am poly. My fiancee is too, naturally, and she would want to meet you before we did anything sexual, including playing. Ideally you would be good friends or even lovers, although she is far more into D/s than S/M, so if it's even better and you become lovers, you'll have to keep it pain free with her. I like being tied up and forced to perform sexual favours, though of course not without limits, and I really like being flogged. I am very careful about safe sex, as I have to be since it is not just my body on the line, but that of a woman I will always hold near and dear to my heart. I insist on clean toys and watching them be cleaned every time, especially where skin may be broken, and you can't flog a subby (okay, switch a little,) without breaking a few skin layers. ;D I am fluid bondable despite the fact that I have stolen a few hearts in my time. I don't like cutting, and any anal play is a soft limit for me. I've had some bad experiences with it and I'd have to break myself into it again slowly, especially if you have a rather large cock. We should both expect full disclosure of hard and soft limits before any play occurs, and a relationship outside the bedroom is foundational to that. It may only take a few dates, but there has to be a romantic connection prior to a sexual one. About life outside of the bedroom, I wear a lot of hats, and one of those, my favourite one, is my photographer hat. I am absolutely passionate about photography and have a good mastery of it. I consider myself a shutterbug extraordinaire and love to shoot just about anything. I really like going out in nature, be it for hikes, snowshoes, rafting, trying something new, or whatever else. I haven't been very active for awhile, so I'm slowly getting back into it. That means nothing too intense until I condition myself for it, but short, flat, pretty hikes are definitely a go.
kian
 
 Age: 23
 Tarboro, North Carolina