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Who's to say that love needs to be soft and gentle?
Submission is more attractive than appearance, let me take you outside your comfort zone. Kneel, follow my rules, and let me bring out the naughty girl inside.

I'm a Dominant guy with a dirty and creative mind. I like providing pleasure and being creative has led me to appreciate the alternative lifestyle of BDSM.

I'm an easy-going and caring type of person, so don't mistake being Dominant with anger or violence. Recycled text, I shouldn't really have to say that here. I'm a mix of Master Dom and Daddy Dom. It's about pushing limits, taking my partner to new places, and providing new experiences.

It takes a little more than a one-night-stand to learn someone's limits. I'm looking for a casual and drama-free relationship, some dirty fun without getting too serious. On-line or IRL.
1/21/2014 9:32:40 PM

I saw this in an on-line profile and it really bothered me.  "Since when does a Master care what the slave likes or dislike, or what consequences will hit the slave?"

Because I might have missed something in the context, the poster was saying how she was annoyed at being asked personal questions, being asked what she likes and doesn't like.

While there is a distinct difference between a slave and a regular submissive, they are both submissive.  Anyone who considers themselves a Master (or even Owner) should ALWAYS be considering limits and the consequences of any activity.  Something the original poster didn't seem to understand.

I'm unsure, but leaning towards thinking the profile was fake.  Of course the poster could just be inexperienced, have her own fantasy about what being a slave really means, or worse.  Her image of being a slave could be the result of non-consensual abuse.

The reality is, having consensual control over another human being has responsibilities.  Because any submissive who relinquishes control to another, TRUSTS that their psychological and physical health will be cared for.  Those who are given the privilege, should TRUST the submissive will share personal views of their experiences.  Especially what the submissive likes and dislikes.

8/30/2009 2:50:23 AM
While I’ll probably still look around this site from time to time. I have given up reaching out to people and trying to make friends. This really isn’t the place.

Mail conversations that have shown promise, just peter out with one-sentence replies. It’s frustrating because I’ve read the profile and actually spend time writing something that will hold my end of the conversation.
6/20/2009 3:45:05 AM
I’ve added a picture of what I think would look like if I were a South Park character.  I’m always willing to share a real picture if someone requests it, but still have to be careful. 

Japan is always an interesting place to live; I was recently noticed going to the convenience store in my pajamas.  To protect my image, I guess I’ll have to cut it out.
6/6/2009 6:56:31 AM
I’ve considered it, and believe I should update my journal on a regular basis.  This should help anyone who views my profile understand more about me.  I’m not going to limit what I write solely to BDSM, hopefully it is interesting to someone on the site.

While browsing the profiles today, I did realize something.  While I am not looking for a real-world relationship, I do keep my searches close to home.  Not sure what that means exactly but I’m not going to spend much time psychoanalyzing it either.

So, it is Saturday evening here in Tokyo.  I spent the morning with a bit of a hangover traveling the subway to a customers office to make some changes to their network.  After I got back to my apartment, I watched a few movies and something triggered an idea that I wanted to try write down.  I occasionally try my hand at erotic writing.

It really didn’t go anywhere and I only ended up with the following two sentences, “Enticing as an ornate box of candies for a valentine, a delicate strip of lace concealed a sweet and succulent treasure. 

Cardinal-red like sin, the decorative fabric complemented flesh comparable to that of a perfectly ripened white peach.


5/9/2009 9:43:38 PM
I really don't find myself coming to this site too often.  But I finally found some time to update some of my interests.
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