I am searching for the man of my desires. I am seeking someone that I look to and be guided. His love will show and be without saying. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. I will look to him for guidance and discipline. This love would not be possible without respect. I live and am successful in the vanilla world but need to know my day is a success because it's due to my Dom. He needs to know I hold my own in the outside world and still submit to him. It is extremely important that he knows I can be with any man and I choose to be with him. I must know he means what he says. If I am going to be the best I can possibly be he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of me to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises.

I love to read, cuddle up and watch a movie, musicals, comedy clubs. I love to laugh and just enjoy life.