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First a promise: I will never betray your trust in me and will never do
anything to you that you do not want done. I have been in this lifestyle
for 20+ years. At this time in my life I believe I need to give back
some of my knowledge to those needing it. For that reason I am devoting
about 70% of my time to mentoring/teaching those who are new to the
lifestyle. I also need to have someone submissive who has been in the
lifestyle for a number of years that is willing to explore her limits.
My
Ideal Person:
Ideally what I am looking for in a submissive is a
married, attached, single, bi, woman who is just getting into this
lifestyle. Someone who's partner does not want anything to do with this
lifestyle or a submissive who does not want their partner to know.
Another
area I am interested in is someone who wishes to obtain knowledge of
this lifestyle and how they may fit into it. I will provide hands on
training if you desire and different areas of play; however, I must get
to know you and we all feel comfortable with doing this.
I have
taught almost all aspects of BDSM from light bondage to heavy pain. I
work with my partner on the areas she is interested in pursuing be it
bondage, pleasure/pain or just pain. I enjoy the control that I have and
the feeling of power.
The most important thing to me is the
connection that is made between me and my sub and I feed off of their
reactions. As a result I am looking for a submissive who is expressive
and highly responsive - not a stoic robot. I also believe that playing
should be fun. You do not need to be a pain slut, but at least find pain
highly erotic.
I really get off on control and there are few
things that turn me on more
I believe that we need to know each
other and build a trusting relationship. This is the most important part
of a D/s lifestyle. You must trust me completely and without question
because you put yourself completely in my hands to do what I want. You
have to feel that I would never do anything that would violate that
trust. I would work on this at every meeting. As you build a deeper
trust in me then you can be comfortable with whatever I want to do,
knowing that I will protect your safety and not put your body into a
situation that is dangerous. You must trust me fully not to take
advantage of you and I must trust you to let me know what you want, how
much you want and when to stop. We also need to develop a healthy
communication between us and build our friendship.
I believe the
D/s lifestyle is one of mutual respect and pleasing the other person.
Now that may sound a little far fetch but I am only there to provide you
with what you need and crave: to be dominate, to please, to be
punished, and to be loved and comforted, not to inflict pain just for
the fun of it.
When I am finished with a punishment or in
experimenting
with some of the toys/restraints I would confort you and bring you back
to earth. After each session you may feel an extreme high. It is my
duty to provide you with loving care, to comfort you, to tell you how
much you pleased me and to provide you with whatever you need. In my
mind this is very important in building our relationship. I do not do
this just to make you feel good, it also helps me to connect with you as
a person, not a play thing.
I have collected a number of items
over the years: the violet wand, tens units, nipple clamps, paddles,
restraints, non piercing nipple and clit rings along with a number of
costumes for role playing, and much more. My profile has a number of
pictures displaying these toys along with an album with additional toys.
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