I am REAL. You should be, too. Ideally, I would like to meet a bondage top who also might enjoy gags, playrape and other kinky exploration. I am looking for someone who is SINGLE and unattached. In short, I am looking to date a 'regular joe' with a kinky streak.

I am NOT looking to be someone's slave or live-in doormat. I have a full vanilla life and do not live the "lifestyle" 24/7 and never will. Perhaps you could label me a "bottom" or "switch", although I'm not too much into labels.

I am 27, 5'5, BBW. Well-proportioned (hourglassy), buxom, and I like to think that I carry myself well. I take pride in my appearance. I am described by others as attractive, but everyone has their own taste. Dark brown hair, green/hazel eyes.

Random facts about me: I was raised in a household that fed me healthy doses of current events and opinionated conversation. I keep a balance of traditional values and progressive thinking. I dress well but never wear a logo on my clothes. I am bilingual. I appreciate fine things but am not a snob. I have travelled to about 40 of the US states, and three foreign countries. I am a product of both private and public schools. I am Jewish.

You've heard the expression, "She is a mile wide and an inch deep..." I consider myself a mile wide and a mile deep.

Major turn-ons: Intelligence. Eroticism. Open-mindedness. Manners. Affection.

Major turn-offs: Apathy. Ignorance. Ethnocentrism. Overt manipulation. Ridiculous screen-names like "LordDragonBreath69" or "MasteroftheUniverse". Poor grammar & spelling. My only major physical turn-off on a man: long hair.

I will reciprocate a pic. I am interested in seeing yours (make it a picture you would show to your mom).