UNDER CONSIDERATION FOR COLLARING
i am pansexual, NOT bisexual.
there was no closer option.
what i want is a strong leader
in the different types of play,
and a strong leader in
the ways of the world, life,
and a decisive and firm hand
to put me in place when
i step out of line
...
here's what i will
NOT
have in a lover, Dominant, etc etc etc
- you MUST have at the very least a high school level education. college preferred.
- intelligent conversation is a MUST.
- i hate to say it but bilinguality is my biggest fetish...i know that cuts some people out, sorry to offend...but i NEEDS it.
- as it says above i am PANsexual...if you're not ok with me having the desire to sexually interact with other people besides you then i m not the girl for you. this could take many forms, but one of my BIGGEST fantasies require many people to see me naked and have some limited access to my body. if that's not what you want for your submissive then happy hunting! :)
- no addictions. (alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, what have you). by this i don't mean you cant have an occasional drink, smoke, or toke...but if one of those things dominates YOUR life...how can i trust you to dominate MINE?
- you MUST pay at the very least YOUR OWN WAY. i will not support you financially. i'm willing to split things, but NOT to carry you.
- you must have a greater knowledge than me in some form and be able to help me learn and grow as a submissive and as a person
- i DONT like sweetie, hunnie, ect... i'm not a 1970's prostitute. give me a pet name that MEANS a little something.
- i do NOT wear make-up...i CAN...its not an allergy issue or anything...i just fucking HATE it. i feel that i am more than enough without it so if you want a prissy little trophy sub i am not the girl for you!
i know some of you are already turned off by the figurative testicular fortitude with which i'm writing, but this early in the game we're just two people and i still have the freedom to say exactly what i will and will not take...not to be rude, but hey it's the internet and if you don't..you'll wind up with crazies.
the above list is also not intended to offend anyone though it very well may.
i have a binder of all my fetish interests, hard limits, curiosities, collected literature, etc all of which i will show anyone who gets close enough to me to meet in person.
....personal shit....
i write.
i'm an artist.
fave mediums are acrylic paint,
graphite, wire sculpture, and collage.
body modification enthusiast.
i'll be a college graduate this september.
i'm not religious, but the religion i
relate to closest is paganism/wicca.
i DO want children some day so if that's
not part of your plan, we will not work out.
reading: bukowsi and goines are two favorites.
i listen to everything from
frank zappa to enya,
guttermouth to sinatra,
rammstein to slayer,
patsy cline to old nintendo game tracks.
my music list is out there....don't let yourself be
surprised by it. heh.
everything but techno and country.
they make my ears cry blood.
.enough for now.
