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Im a guy , live in a house , Im artistic , Kind and mostly Happy , positive attiude , have traveled a bit . Dont like mean people, mean people suck. I spend alot of time making art and music and gardening. I like to Dance, I like fashion , I like to hangout with people who are of above average intelligence so If you are a bit stoopid then we may not get along, that being said Im willing to give most people a chance and I recognise that intellegence manifests itself in different ways and what you have learned from the written word can be full of crap when compared to real life experience, and really the true test of a persons intelligence is the way in which they demonstrate compassion towards others and that you can deal with emotions or anger in a practical way that results in a positive result for all people involved.If only the leaders of our world demonstrated a smidgeon of emotional intelligence ....... but i digress. Beauty: It is more than Skin deep , I like women who are tall , but its not a necessity, If you dont like yourself maybe you need to change that , its more fun and you will be much happier. If you are a bit chubby Ill make you go for walks in the country with me , if your ribs are showing ill cook you a meal. Quite simply we all have the potential to be stars and if you dont like yourself no one else will.

AGE: Im a young 34 , I have spent my life travelling and going to parties and pretty much being and eternal teenager, I am capable of being a Groan up but really I dont see the point, all my friends who have Grown up are fairly unhappy , trapped , having midlife issues and loosing hair and health because they priotise financial security and social status over enjoying life , I want to still be having fun when im 90 so Im in for the long haul , not the burn out and cancer / divorce / second mortage / spoiled brat kids. Ive had sucessful happy relationships in the last few year , but we wanted different things and are still friends (some). I dont care how old you are (21 to 45 is a practical ball park). Ive been out with women between 19 and 40 before and they were all awesum and at the end of the day people are people , not an age.

ABOUT SEX: SEX is a normal healthy human expression, Vanilla sex is fine with me but I also like to roleplay and Do bondage and light fettish, I dont like anthing that is overtly abusive or degrading unless it is in the context of getting past hangups, that is I have a policy of "do no harm", that being said with the right woman I like to explore many themes of sexuality and identy, trust and role issues through the medium of sexuality. So If you would like to meet up for an interesting and stimulating freindship that may extend into some kind of sensual exploration of the body and soul then drop me a line and we can even just talk about stuff and share ideas.
mtl01070
 
 Age: 27
 San Diego, California