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petlover48

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Im a pretty laid back Dom but can be very strict also. On the other hand Ive been told Im very fair and caring. Im looking for a subslave that wants to share their lives with me. One that would like to give up control to me. Im not looking for just play or short term. Im looking for someone to live the rest of my life with. I know also that trust is earned and not just given. Im in no hurry to find someone and will never pressure you to speed things up. We will go at your pace. There are a lot of Doms on here that will start barking orders like they own you. Im not that way, if and when you freely give yourself to me then you would follow protocols.

Ive been in the lifestyle for many years. I dont take it lightly. Im looking for someone that is looking to be controlled. Someone that loves having their life controlled in everything. Someone that isnt afraid to try new things. Someone that loves to laugh and have fun.

I do have a sadistic side and do enjoy causing pain but I dont have to. If you enjoy pain I can be that type of Dom but a few on here hate pain and Im OK with that also. As long as we get along in all the other aspects of the relationship. I may cause pain but will never hurt, there is a big difference between the two.

In the getting to know each other stage I will answer any question you have. I have nothing to hide and have no hidden agenda. Im drama free and looking for the same in a subslave.




9/8/2013 6:31:17 AM

 

 

"A slave is a truly enraptured and enrapturing creature, capable of the greatest pain and the deepest passion. She is a temperamental creature, simultaneously fickle in her emotions, and fiercely, ferociously devoted in her affections. She is tumultuous and tempestuous, a mercurial maelstrom, and she knows no other way to be. If she could, she would not change, because, on some primeval level, she realizes that the death of her passion would be the death of her.

In truth, a slave is not simply the finest of all creatures; she is the epitome of all creatures. She combines strength and weakness, boldness and a certain shy innocence, languor and desperation; she is both cosmopolitan and naïve. Her nature is an amalgam of all that is passionate in any sense of the word. She is nothing without an owner, but in his arms, she is all things.

She is voracious and demanding, wanting nothing more, and certainly nothing less, than the absolute enslavement of the one she loves–the owner of her soul. She cannot be, will not be, and is incapable of being completely happy, until she knows to the very depths of her being that her owner is, in truth, owned by the reality of owning her. She longs for the completion of a partner in her own rapture/misery.

If you beat her, she will smile at you through her tears, because you have reaffirmed for her your ownership, your innate right to mistreat her if you please. If you kiss her, she will bite you, begging you with her passion to own her again, and more completely this time.

She is dangerous and daring. Self-preservation will never be her strong suit. She will beguile you to her last breath, knowing that without you, she cannot breathe at all. Her vulnerability will appall you with the knowledge that you could never– would never– allow anyone that close to you, and at the same time, arouse in you every protective instinct you posses, to see that no one ever ravages this state of her– except you.

She will define her entire world by your moods, enchanting herself with them, until she has internalized them so completely that a single look from you can bring her to laughter, or to tears, or to orgasm, or to suicide. She will love you with an abandon that will leave you stunned.

She will worry you, and nag you; she will threaten and cajole. And she will do it because she is incapable of holding back from you, even though she knows that you will pay it all no immediate heed, because your attention is your whim. She will revel in your denial of her pleasure. It only confirms her own desire.

But do not be misled. She is clever and she is fleet, and she will give you all you can handle and more. She knows her own value, and is not afraid to demand repayment in kind. She is not for the faint of heart, body, mind or resolve. She will tax your every breath, your every thought, your every move. She is responsible for something far greater than yourself and her independence in that will confound you.

Be wary, be attentive. Devastate her if you can, but know that she will only thank you for it if you do. And much to your consternation, she will politely, sweetly, touchingly beg you to do it again. And still she will want more.

But never destroy her adoration for you by withholding your own. Never give her cause to doubt it, because if you do, she will exact retribution and it will be the greatest agony you have ever known. She will withdraw from you. She will take her love and walk away without hesitation, because she is enslaved only by her love for you, and without that love, your power over her is gone. She will leave you cold. And when she does, you will finally know that all along, you needed her too".

5/12/2013 6:20:56 AM

You know I love these subs and slaves that say if you don't have a picture I will delete and block you and they have no pic on their profile. You think that we are going to jump through hoops and you don't need to do the same thing get real.

NerdMinx
 
 Age: 24
 Providence, Rhode Island