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I'm looking for a switch or dominant man to play with. At the moment pet play is an area that really interests me, but generally bondage/control/sensory dep/etc. I am not looking for a master, essentially I am looking to sometimes bottom to a 'friend with kinky benefits'. Where we can have the occasional evening of fun with power exchange. I'm not submissive in that I'm not looking for a relationship in which my aim is to please a dom - in relationship terms I am Domme, but this is not what I am seeking via this profile. I can very happily be a bottom in play with the right man, giving him complete control within my (not too restrictive) limits and enjoying the balance that gives me to my normal BDSM activities. If you don't understand these limitations, and the difference between a sub and a bottom, then please don't contact me - I am very happy with who I am, and I know what I want. I am embarrassed and turned on by ideas such as wearing a mask/plug-tail and having speech and movement restricted (joining forearms and upper arms, or calves to thighs to force all-fours walking). I am also keen to try body paint, and maybe WAM play (with paint or sweet things, savoury food doesn't really excite me for play!)... a kind of clothed male, naked degraded dirty female situation. Obviously the photo isn't me but it illustrates the kind of thing that makes me wet and embarrassed all at the same time. It's about control, not about extreme use. I'm curvy but not too big, and would like a man who can hold a decent conversation on the friends side. You also need to be under 50 and capable of writing a decent memo to me. It would very much help if your memo made some indication to show me you've actually read this profile, and are interested in me rather than sending single line or copy and paste messages.

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