Dominant:
First and foremost, social graces and protocols are a must, anything lesser than will rejected and not considered. You must demonstrate and valid to me that you are well schooled in mannerisms
Is one who controls by teaching, mentoring and leading. This Dom knows that things will happen as a progression of the interaction it is not the activities, but the surrender as a result of the Domination that is the ive and enjoyment. Creativity is an important part of this situation.
These are the more intellectual, into the philosophy/psychology mechanism of this lifestyle. They do not like the heavy S&M activities; preferring submission to occur as a result of an instilled desire in the submissive to surrender.
She "wants" to as a result of the Dominant's knowledge and skill at Dominating. Sensuousness is the rule and light pain is given and received as a form of sensuousness stimulation.
If you cant enjoy and relate to the Art of Erotica, in Words, Scenes, and Writtings ... then continue on viewing others .... as their is nothing more to see here .nline romance, submissives or sex slaves are invited to say hello ! All this are preludes to possible meetings in real life
Within the qualities of a submissive ..the lady must be self respecting, elegant, and one who takes pride in her femininity and sensuality ......
I believe two people can weave a tapestry that blends both "Vanilla and the alt.lifestyle" within their day to day life ..... simply meaning when the senses reveal the desire to please and be pleasured .... it happens naturally and not via a time frame etc.
She must also have appreciation for his acts of Chivalry, Romance, His Seduction and desire to please and be pleasured in return.
I read many sub/slave journals and profiles that comment about the "Thin" emails they receive and what little is shared about the person sending the note.
On the other hand its a two way street, in how some sub/slaves do not have the same social grace, to simply remit a "Thank You" for a respectful note of introduction along with a return statement of "Interest or Non-Interest."
Oh and another clue for you subs ..... have the courtesy of posting a comment that you only seek locals .... if that is your choice and if you state you are willing to relocate .. make it clear where and where not your willing to locate.
"Lead me not into temptation ..... I can find it myself... "
"For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time. ~Isabel Allende"
“Men are easy to get but hard to keep.”
Mae West
