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Objective:
To find and commit to a total multidimensional(Spiritual, Emotional, Physical,
Vanilla, BDSM) Lifestyle TPE FL LTR relationship with the one Domme/Goddess/Mistress that is the right one for her and me.
__Activities I like to do outside the BDSM scene are:__
Spending time with my primary mate, Learning new things, Experiencing new situations and places, Enjoy entertaining, BBQing, Traveling, Golfing, Swimming, Hiking & Walking, Nudist Resorts, Listening to talk radio (KGO my favorite), Discussing, and I do mean discussing Quality of life issues, Politics, Energy Policy, Job Creation, Education, Health Care, keeping the middle class American dream alive for future generations.
Played Flute and Tenor Sax for 4 years have been singing for 30 years, Want to get back into my Photography (All Digital now), Love Art & Wine Festivals, Musical performances of Classical, Jazz, Blues, Country New Traditional and Rock, prefer the smaller venues unless it's a big performer.
__Within the BDSM world__
I'm opening myself up to exploring my submissive side, expanding my envelope of Pain/Pleasure experiences (See Groups for my Fetish desires). Open to the D/S side of the lifestyle with certain RACK limits (i.e. some sadist tendencies but not passed __"the breaking me limit, you can't play with broken toys"__). Open to living the Lifestyle 24/7 with that special Dommina.
Now I'm not into dominance or sadomasochism as it is portrayed in the media. In fact, everyone I know in this lifestyle is in it for the sensual activities and the upfront honesty between partners. It is basically a term that describes our kinky side. I consider myself a switch with submissive tendencies. Because I enjoy giving pleasure and pain as much as I do receiving it. __(See above for the Pain Quotient)__
As for dominance/submissive (D/s) in general, I firmly believe that a D/s relationship is more honest than a typical vanilla relationship. This is because the dominant and submissive must fully understand the boundaries and limits of the relationship. While in a vanilla relationship each partner, in most cases, do not have this full understanding of their partners needs, desires, and fantasies.
This is the primary reason why I am interested in the BDSM lifestyle. I want to be able to communicate my needs, desires, and fantasies with my partner knowing that she will not judge me or be repulsed. I want to do the same with my partner. In other words, I want an honest relationship with my partner and that we are loyal to each other. I relish in my servitude to my submissive position to the power position of dominate women everywhere as it should be to the balance of the world I want to live in and die.
__Needs I am seeking and why they are important to me__
__Emotional__
I'm an open minded person that is seeking knowledge as much as possible in every aspect in life. I’m seeking someone that I can freely discuss my hopes, desires, and fears with without fear of judgment or reprisals. She should have similar interests in entertainment, outdoor activities, spirituality, etc. As for our dissimilar interests, she should understand my interests, but she doesn’t necessary have to participate if she isn't interested.
Most of all, I’m seeking to build a trust that will take us to regions unknown by most people. Someone who has a kind and caring spirit. That she is emphatic of others and has a tendency to find ways to soothe their pains and encourage them to be what they are meant to be. Maybe more of a Sensual Dom but still with the nasty in her.:-)
I firmly believe that life must be fully enjoyed as much as possible. What that means to me is that a positive attitude is essential and humor is the icing to smooth over the downs and personal flaws and faults that are ever present in our life.
On my side, I hope she too has the same emotional desires that I described above.
__Physical__
The emotional demeanor of a person overrides the physical attributes. However, the main concern I have regarding the physical attributes of a potential partner is that she is trying her best to stay in shape.
I enjoy being nude. I hate wearing clothes and the first thing I do when I’m home is to get naked. As I stated earlier I enjoy going to a local nudist resort and enjoy the company of other like minded people.
Again on my side, I hope she too has the same physical desires and outlook that I described above.
__Sexual__
I want to serve my one special Domme. Making her happy by serving her in anyway she sees fit makes me happy!!
I like cuddling, touching, and holding my partner. I love watching my partner showering, getting dressed and undressed, role playing, giving my partner oral sex. I also enjoy watching my partner masturbate and using sex toys.
__My Ideal Person__
Who would be the right person I’m looking for?
Someone who is honest, creative, open, comfortable with their body, willing to explore their sexual, physical boundaries and limits and assist in the exploration of their partner’s boundaries and limits in a safe and loving environment. She would be a complicated and fascinating person that would inspire her partner to discover new and exciting ways to please her. As the relationship progresses she is comfortable sharing her soul, her desires, her lusts, and fantasies.
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