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I felt that this needed to be updated... I have been into the Lifestyle for pretty much ever but not active in the "community" Just like I am in the world but I don't follow certain "societal norms" Women fought and gained rights African American's fought and gained rights LGBT fought and have gained/lost/gained/lost ect rights. BDSMers are we fighting? And more importantly what are we fighting for and what do we stand for? Are we people who put people down? Are we the bully's? Are we the assholes who want to defy any rules? Are we the ones who want to be beaten or broken? Is it all just kinky fun? Is it all about fucking? Is it all about blood and pain and the taboo? Is it an avenue to pretend or express our "dark side?" I am me and I am not here for any of the above and hopefully you are not either. Do I believe in government sure but do I believe in all of it, NOPE! Am I am Anarchist and refuse it all, NOPE! Am I just a Queer? NOPE! Am I straight? NOPE! Am I just a woman? NOPE! Am I a man? NOPE! A bully? NOPE! A pushover? NOPE! and so on and so on...you should be getting the point. Some of us will not be limited by society and what others want us to be or want us to act like. It was the reason that all movements happened. Women did not believe they were less then or did not deserve. LGBT believe nobody can tell us who to love. This goes into any belief that anyone holds. My question is why do some people hold old or outdated views of the BDSM community? Why do many even in the community seem to hold those views? If you are going to act as if women are less then, the community will not be welcomed into the "world" cause we fought for that shit years ago and its over. If you are going to say things like well I am not gay but I would let a women strap one on then you might come off as being offensive to the gays and maybe to some women. Again not gonna find you a place in the "worlds" eyes. If you are going to be an African American with an African American president but still fling the N-word around your neighborhood like its an endearing term to call your friends that might not go over so well. Its like the BDSM community, sure your "friends" (community) accept it or you, but what about the world? My point is if we want to be the outcasts, misunderstood, and damned then we should just keep on acting like we are. If we want acceptance in the grander scale then we need to approach people with caution and make sure that we are clear about what we mean, how we act, why and what we stand for. "They" don't get it. We need to educate them. People are scared of things that they do not understand and we are scared of people who don't understand us. None of us want to think that someone will hurt us for what we believe, but there are those who think that if we are the things I listed above that we are not worth any effort or do not deserve to be a part of society in general and are more then willing to put us down. That is where the fight lies for us. The fight lies in the education of the masses. Breaking the taboo and fear that surrounds the community. I mean the media does not help our efforts much with shows like American Horror Story and so on. People are quick to maybe think OH FUCK those people are scary, weird, and sexual deviants. Sure we can be I suppose to the general population but really we are not. We are mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, sons, daughters, wives, husbands, artists, workers, lovers, and so on. If we want to be understood then we must show ourselves and in the right manner. Nobody is going to respect someone who puts a million cock and tit pictures on their profile and no face pictures. I am sorry that is how it is. That does not mean that people should not be able to show such pictures if they want to do so, but expect that many will look at it and make a judgement. If you can't handle that judgement then do not put it out there. If we hide our faces then we are saying we have a reason to hide right? We are saying that we are doing something wrong. We do not hide our faces in other social arenas. People post facebook pictures all day long everyday. They are like who cares if someone sees me eating a sandwich but on these BDSM sites too many are hiding or putting up bullshit pictures. Are you afraid to have a voice or to say what you believe in? Freedom of speech is in the constitution. Pictures are a form of speech. If you are not willing to fight for the rights of yourself which are backed by the constitution of the United States of America, then you can go fuck yourself in a corner somewhere for all I care and not share it with anyone. LOL So I guess to each their own right? If you are not willing to stand up then you are probably content with being abused. If you are content with being abused you are probably weak. If you are weak you are probably in need of someone to do things for you. If you are content with someone doing things for you then you are not independent, if you are not independent then you are a burden to those around you, if you are a burden to those around you then most won't want to be around. If most don't want to be around you then you are lonely. If you are lonely then you are sad. If you are sad then you hope for something or someone else to make you happy. If you expect someone else to do it for you you probably never get it. If you never get it...THEN YOU NEVER GET IT. I am not afraid to stand up. I will fight for those who do the same. .

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 Age: 18
 North Olmsted, Ohio