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Well spent 2.5 days in my kajira slave outfit giving it another good test. So 2 big days of beginning to end to see how housework, and just doing everyday stuff in it works. The new designs work really well I think. |
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why "point of view" is important....
D/S Relationships: This is pretty easy I thought, but ok as male-to-female trans I guess you could say any relationship I get into can become complicated, because it all depends upon your point of view.
Orientation: not applicable, why you ask? Well here is the easy way to view it for you. Because I have not had the finally sex change surgery yet it really depends upon your point of view. If you see me as a guy then I'm "hetroflexible"....but if you see me as a girl then I'm "lesbiflexible". Are you geeky enough to figure that one out. I guess because for some people this is important...heck its your point of view not mine.
This is the best I could explain myself to someone. |
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Ha! I got them...eating healthy can be harmful to your health! I got diverticulitus in early august and had to go to the hospital for it. Seems all those seeds and healthy things got into pockets in my intestines and got infected. Its kinda weird having a doctor say you tend to eat healthy right....then have them tell you well thats part of your problem right now. So too much of a good thing can be bad for you like they say! LOL |
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Why do people put interested in dominant/submissive trans in their profiles when they have no idea what one is! I have seen too many people looking for a crossdresser and thinking a TG is the same thing. NEWS FLASH! They aren't! I'm beginning to believe the lifestyle community is not really open minded to TG's. I think we let too many terms come into being by people and that has destoryed what it means to most people.
Ok after getting feedback from all people. Let me correct it by saying maybe people should be more specific about what kind of TG they want. I say this because cd's/tv's/and ts's are each different in there own ways. |
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I wish these so called TG's would stop with the fantasy requests like this, "I want to eventually become full time( implants, hormones, 24/7 woman).also a couple who would like to put me through the process of becoming a transsexual."....GET A LIFE PEOPLE! If you do not have the courage to loose your family, friends, everything like I have, how can you go even further and become someone's slave too! GET REAL! Its only a fantasy, and if by chance you get it....most likely it will turn into a nightmare for you because you were never truly ready for it.
Being a TG is about making a choice. Being a slave/sub is about making a choice. A TG is a taboo. The BDSM lifestyle is a taboo. Your combining two uncommon taboo's and creating a rare taboo. You got maybe a 1 in a billion chance of it happening!
All these little fantasy's do is make the true TG's life in the lifestyle that much harder. Your hurting the cause! Porn is not real bdsm! A fantasy doesn't last forever, it fades. Try to find a more meaningful way to create a better bdsm lifestyle for TG's instead of the porn fantasy!
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I've seen some old friends visit and viewing me again. Thanks so much. Thanks for those beign bold enough to say Hi, I may not remember names good, but I do remember people and screen names. Is it bad to remember the screen name over the real name? |
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Well people have asked about the poem. Well it describes that duality in me, and that sometimes resides within us all. It does not mean though that I cannot be totally one or the other. What it tells you is that you have 3 choices before you of me. How much better could that be, not one or two but three! |
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Ok whats with all the feet when there is a no foot fetish listed!! Or worse yet just feet!!! What thats the best part of you? Come on, give me a break!
I have a serious side to finding someone who likes the lifestyle. But I want more than just feet to look at, then again I am a leg person so all of it is better than just part right? |
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I do not understand why there are even titles anymore. I mean a good friend says I'm lesbian....if so why does that only get guys looking at you then? If your BI people think you will do anybody....how come there isn't a title for that then? Heck why not have 100 different titles with good descriptions! Heck I just learned its now the GBLTQAH...if we keep getting all these people we should start our own country!! |
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Well I got my mannequin and it is going to help out a lot with all the new slave chain mail ideas. Would be nice to have an actual slave to test the prototypes on....yet I will have to wait a little longer for that special person to cross my path and come into my life. |
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ok now that i'm back at work and I have room for a little slave in the house, how come there aren't any takers? What is the matter are there truly no girls that will be with a TS on here? I'm not hearing from you??? |
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Back in the work force, and i've found out one thing...i like working for someone that knows about me. It's great and makes that stress of wonder go away to give me even a greater focus upon my job. |
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I've recently gotten back out a little. I'm glad I did. I guess maybe SL(second life) helped get me back in the mood.
I wonder if anyone on here is part of that too? Are you? |
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A good transgendered friend of mine passed away today from cancer. She got to live her dream for a while of being completely female. A good friend will sometimes drag you out to go somewhere when you don't feel like it. In the end you'll never forgot those times. She was like that and for this person she will be remembered and missed. |
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With the passing of my birthday I have come to the conclusion people are like icebergs....you rarely see whats underneath. |
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The secret of life...like the stuff thats good for you, because then when you get older it becomes bad for you to eat, and then you get to eat all the bad stuff anyway. |
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Well I hosted and put on our first BDSM/munch/lifestyle Halloween party. It went off really well, and everyone had a great time. The costume contest went off nicely, even with the loud music below. It was a lot of work to get ready in such short notice, and next year it should be much better.
Its definately something that needs two people to host and mc all the stuff. Still it was a great success and great change over a normal social munch. |
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Do you still want to be owned? I want someone that wants to feel that throughout there whole being each day. I want to work at making them happy in that choice. I want them if they are next to me, with me, to have that feeling that a herd of elephants couldn't keep them from being were they are right now. Yet you have to be here to experience it and the choice is up to you. |
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Well I'm starting to make the first male slave outfit. Hopefully within a month I may have pictures of it.
So now I can make either, although I have yet to find a real live-in female slave for training who wants to actually be apart of this house. |
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You know I really do not care what orientation you are. What matters to me is are you open minded to what I have to offer you? |
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In its most simplest form define the following words with another word. You can use only one word. It may help us both to find what we seek. Have fun!
Love= ___________,
Honor=___________,
Service=__________,
Play=__________,
Power Exchange=______________,
Submission=___________,
Control= ___________, |
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A lifestyle relationship is an advanced relationship it has more depth, meaning, growth, etc. than a normal vanilla one does. This may also mean that it may take a little more work in that communication will have to be there more. If your not a doormate sub/slave you've thought about this as well. |
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Yes I have a chain mail and chain fetish and some of what I make are in the photo's. Now the question is are you willing to wear something like this for me?
It is part of the perks of the package in time through your service to me. As you advance you will eventually gain and earn your full complete outfit. Its more than just earning a collar. |
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I find it funny that sometimes things just happen when I need them. I've gotten a little down about how some people initiate contact...then a new song comes out that says it all! "Speak the truth or make your peace some other way..."
Some people say I can be too direct at times. Well wouldn't you rather know where you stand with someone? I do. I may look like a real woman, but I will not deny the fact that right now I'm still a pre-op MtF TS. The truth does set you free if your willing to embrace it. |
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If I'm supposely the best of both worlds...would someone write to me and tell me when that is the "in thing" again for women? Until that time comes around again I'll just have to wait patiently I guess. |
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I learned last week never have regrets about other people you know. You never know when they may leave you forever. I can at least say I had no regrets when someone dear to me left this world. |
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Standstill--Being stuck in one place, unwilling or scared to go forward, or move ahead with your life.
Meeting someone that you find special can set anyone into a standstill, to move forward both of you must come to the conclusion to move forward together....its never easy.
Koneko |
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Ocelots Preamble: I know that what I want does not follow the norms of society. Yet I choose to do so of my own free will. If at any time I choose to leave the clan, I do so knowing that I all I have learned, done, and said stays within me. To honor those that have come before me I will not speak ill of others, for if I cannot give praise as one should, than I should not speak at all, and just hold my tongue. To give honor is to give praise, to dis-honor all ones has to do is to speak ill of another. If I practice this I begin to walk the true path.
I am a Tigercat. I am strong and soft, fierce and loyal, but above all I am still a person with all that comes with it, and will remember my beginnings so that I can reach the end with peace of mind, clarity of vision, and strength of heart. |
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Alchemy is based on the theory of equivilent exchange. It is were one thing is given up to the void and something different in return is received. The essance of this in the lifestyle is TPE.
If you are someone who can see the similarity in the above statement and other things within life your more of the kind of person I may want. Not the "its all about me" person, because in the end both need each other.
koneko |
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"I don't know what words I can say, the wind has a way to talk to me."
"Flowers sing their silent lullaby, I wait for a reply...I'm ready."
"silence speaks and surrounds me, oh serenity....someone....show me...hhmmm hmm hmm hmm....what is it they say, maybe I will know one day."
"I don't know what words I can say...."
For some reason I felt like that today. *smiles*
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I would like to know how does a collared sub find a playmate just for them? Is this even possible?
I mean I would like a live in partner, but I don't want them to be dominant. I think it would be interesting to be with someone, maybe each person havign their own dominant to teach them. Just think of all the fun if both dominants got to together?
Has anyone ever explored any of the possibilites I've mentioned here. I'm curious to know.
koneko of Kittae |
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