Hello my darlings ^_^

Firstly, don't write things like You or Your unless they're at the start of a sentence and don't do all that W/we stuff either. For the time being, we're just 2 equal folk having a conversation. If we both decide that we have something to offer each other then fine, then you can put me on a pedestal but not until then. Don't call me a title until such a time. If you must call me something, Jak will do fine. I live in the real world. I expect the same from you.

 

I'm primarily interested in men (cis or trans) and not too fussed about age to be honest. I won't say no to the right guy though. I do have a boyfriend who is also poly. If this bothers you then off you fuck.

Ok so...me. How to describe me....hmmm. Well I'm a poly, trans guy (my pronouns are him/his) I'm a geek, a gentleman and joker. I love to read, take pictures, write naughty stories, make up (I'd like to become a make up artist), the Museum of Science and Industry, music and films. I smoke a little, have the odd beer and I've never done the drug thing so I guess I'm pretty straight edge these days although I am perfectly comfortable with people that drink/smoke/recreationally take drugs. I'm a queer/people sexual. I like radical thinking and politics and exploring them. I love consent, respect and communication. I don't always understand stuff about people but I do my best to respect them. I expect the same. I like wearing suits to fetish clubs. I hate it when people feel like they have the right to ask personal questions about the configuration of my body or my medical history. Would you go up to a random person in the street and ask what's in their pants? My body is no ones business unless I choose to make it so. I am not a freakshow or help desk. I don't mind pointing you in the direction of useful websites though if you wish to learn more about sex and gender. I am also mostly happy to answer general questions.

I know, not really a deion but more the things I like. I'm quite a nice person most of the time but I can be a bit selfish and lazy. I'm very loyal and loving and I love helping people grow. I have a crazy sense of humour and I love laughing. I believe in giving everyone a chance but I'm not a pushover by any means. Under this pink and cute exterior is a will of iron so when I ask someone to do something, I expect them to do or there will be consequences quite simply.

 

 Please don't send me messages begging me to Dom you. I want to know about you as a person. Do I expect an essay? No. I don't mind one liners. I do appreciate some thought and effort though.

I'm a very relaxed, not a rushing kinda person. I do things at my own pace and I'll be damned if I'm going to do them at other peoples. I suppose you could say I march to the beat of my own drum though I don't mind compromising from time to time.

I find people and group dynamics rather interesting so I freely admit to being one of life's people watchers. I am voyeuristic I suppose.

Oh yes, I loooove play dough. Also rugby too.

I'm a history geek especially about the World Wars and the last imperial family of Russia. I'm learning to play the bass which I am rather enjoying.

My favourite titles are Boss, Daddy and Sir but as I said, if you are not my sub then you need not use them or worry about them.

I do not often message people unless I really enjoyed your profile and it was well thought out and eloquently written. If I have viewed your profile though and you enjoyed reading mine then please do feel free to get in touch :)

I also completely adore cuddling with people.

 

As a D type, I'm pretty flexible and have a range of kinks although bondage, sensory play, pain and orgasm control are pretty high up there on the list. See the interests bit for more. I'd like to think I'm a nice mix of loveliness and a horrible bastard when it comes to kink.

 

 

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Right, seeing as people can't seem to read, start your message with "Dearest Jak" to prove you've read my profile or you won't get a reply. I hate to do this but recently I've had so many people not bother and it's really fucking annoying. How will you know you want to submit to me if you don't know anything about me?