Pan Female Dominant, 24, Los Angeles, California US
I'm a loving, fun, educated, bisexual, dominant Woman - a financially secure professional writer with an active social life. I am pairbonded with my female partner in an open relationship; however, at this time I would like a submissive male helpmate for my very own. I am an extremely detail-oriented dominant and know exactly what I want.
I'll need to like you as a person and find you interesting and
attractive before I consider you for a helpmate. I have a witty,
acerbic sense of humor and love to laugh. You'll need to be smart, well-written, and emotionally available. Your level of maturity is relevant, age is not. Below, I'll describe my ideal relationship.
1. Your Education: I'm a Radical Feminist. This does not mean that I resent men, hate them, or think that all of them should be submissive to women - men deserve the right to choose their fate, including choosing to be submissive. What it does mean is that I believe a pro-Woman culture shift is necessary, and that, as my submissive, you must respect and obey me as a dominant Woman. You will be given Feminist homework to complete daily, both reading and writing assignments. There will be tests. I'm not kidding. You will become extremely well-versed in the nuances of the Feminist and Womanist movements, as well as historical matriarchal Goddess Worship societies. As a submissive male with a powerful Female owner, you will learn to submit to me and cherish me as your beloved Goddess. You will also endure, as part of yourFeminist Education and Appreciation of Women, many other discomforts that your gender has traditionally imposed upon mine: corsetry, makeup, receptive penetration upon demand, and domestic work.
2. Your Appearance: I enjoy feminizing men in my presence; it makes them more attractive, docile, and well-behaved. At home, you'll dress as a woman, in full makeup and lingerie: stockings, garters, bra, panties, and high heels. If you have employment that requires you to dress as a man, we'll find women's garments that can almost pass as men's clothing, but you will not dress in real male clothing, at all.
I do not shave my body, because I feel perfectly beautiful as-is, and do not feel like wasting time conforming to a chauvinist stereotype. I have very light down on my legs and underarms and a full, untrimmed pubic bush. You, however (except for your head), will keep yourself as hairless as a prepubescent girl. It's a nice reminder of who's in charge.
3. Your Duties: As the domestic helpmate, it shall be your duty to keep the house tidy and do my laundry (by hand). We shall get you a French Maid outfit for the purpose of cleaning and serving houseguests. I am involved with a group of other Feminist writers who meet at my home weekly. They will enjoy seeing you in your uniform bringing tea, and standing before us to read aloud your writing assignments.
4. Your Chastity: I do not believe in the submissive male ejaculation. It brings laziness, and diminishes the will to serve. You will wear a locking device on your penis that prevents stimulation of any kind. Relief for you will come in the form of anal prostate milking according to my schedule to be determined later.
5. My Pleasure: Our intimate play will be ritualistic Female Empowerment / Goddess Worship sessions. These will come primarily in two ways: either seated astride your face, your mouth stimulating my vulva and anus; or with my Feeldoe penetrating you anally, stimulating my clitoris and G-spot. These nice, long sessions will be according to my preferred schedule (daily, most likely.) I will retain the option of having you play sexually with other men. You will not have the option to decline any activity I demand. Of course, your penis will always remain locked during any of these scenarios. You will not interfere with my sexual activities with other men and women, although it's possible that you'll occasionally be allowed to observe.
What This Is Not: This will not be a "typical" BDSM relationship. While I enjoy some parts of the culture, I prefer to create my own world, so please discard any ideas you currently hold about protocols, rules, and "scenes".
You will not be calling me "Mistress" (my name is Conception,) and I will not be indulging you in your own fantasies, which may include: bondage, cbt, whips, canes, floggers, diapers, foot worship, etc. I like fetish outfits for certain social occasions, but I will not be wearing them for your benefit, nor do I often wear makeup. I do not "play punish" for "naughty behavior". If correction is required for small offenses, you will not enjoy it. If action is needed for repeated serious offenses, then we shall part ways.
The pleasures you receive out of this arrangement shall come from making me happy - otherwise, you are not the type of submissive I seek.
So, having read all that, if we exchange messages and I like you, we'll meet. This is what to expect:
On our first date, we'll have a casual dinner at a place of my choosing. We'll talk and get to know each other. I'll pay, then you'll go home.
For a second date, I'll come to your house and you'll make me dinner and serve me wine. We'll learn more about eachother, perhaps watch a movie, and then I'll go home.
For a third date, I'll be taking you to a nearby private adult D/s-friendly club. I may have you strip naked, sit at my feet, or play with you in some way.
For the fourth date, we shall first make a trip to my doctor, where she will give you a safe medical frenum piercing and attach the high-impact PVC airport-safe locking chastity device. I will have the only key, and it will remain there until we permanently part ways. Later that evening, in my house, I will depilate you, dress you as a girl, instruct you in our first Goddess Worship session, and you'll sleep over in your nightie.
For fun and relaxation, I'll enjoy your company to independent films, dancing, camping, the opera. Evenings and weekends, you'll lie at my feet at home while we watch TV, or give me massages and extended oral attention while I read or chat on the phone.
Note that nothing here is open to compromise or debate. If, at any point during our interaction you disappoint me in any way or fail to show proper respect, we shall part ways. If you wish to contact me, send me a proper message of introduction.