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| 1. Must Live in Los Angeles or close to it to be my slave/dog . I live in Glendale
2. Do NOT contact me if you require below, which is outside ORIGINAL BDSM:
- Being NAKED - [you must wear black outfit]
- Ass Play
- Intercourse
- Strap-On
- Your Genital TOUCHED
- RELIEF in front of Me
3. Email me following instructions below, after you check the Rules. Otherwise it will be immediately deleted.
4. Flaking/Lying - Many slaves are practiced LIARS. Many FLAKE BEFORE meeting! IF you suddenly face issues: sickness, travel, work, family/car emergency, someone going in labor! then get a therapist instead. If you have already flaked/lied your email will be deleted.
SUMMARY
I am an attractive, experienced 10+years, caring but strict lifestyle domme. I need a sincere, experienced, white or native American Slave/Dog 28-52. I need service 2 x week , week night & weekend. I am looking to train/own my slave, not just have play sessions.
ORIGINAL BDSM started in European Royal Courts. Slave's sexual satisfaction is permitted ONLY outside of My presence. This is all about My pleasure, not yours. The mental connection between Me and My lifestyle slave/dog is extremely important & is cherished.
RULES
- Hygiene - Shower with clean clothes.
- Chastity - I like to reduce your sexual ability & desires. I will train you gently/slowly.
- Restriction - Speech, eye contact. No use of furniture.
- Ask permission - to speak, look up, drink, eat and use the bathroom.
- CBT - You will be wearing a pair of shorts and I may use a remote. I'll explain.
- Punishment - Caning, whipping, slapping, trampling...Severity depends on slave. No slave/dog is perfect
- Cage - Restraints, hood, blindfolds.
- Body Worship: Massage, 1-hour Oral, Smothering & Breath Play. You CAN breath.
- Humiliation - Your identity will be that of dog, not human. You will be on collar and leash. You crawl.
- Toilet - Prefer to drink My golden. Many beg Me for more.
- Housework & errands
- NOTE:__The first 2 meetings are spent talking, getting to know you, and testing you. If you pass, then prior to 3rd meeting a written Rules Sheet will be given to you. e.g. Includes speech and eye-contact restriction, how to crawl, sit, eat. I may dress up a little at that time.
EMAIL
Answer each question below separately using the same numbers 1-11:
1- where you live in LA & how far from Glendale
2- your slave experience in serving Mistresses. List everything, including toilet
3- if your slave service ever involved getting touched by your Mistress OR relief in front of her? If so, when?
4- the longest oral you have given
5- your experience of chastity & CBT in the last 3 years
6- your experience of intercourse (BDSM or Vanilla) in the last 3 years
7- Would you be interested in having your sexual desire reduced OR do you plan to continue with intercourse in vanilla life?
8- your hard limits
9- your needs, if any - e.g. caning, humiliation, intercourse, toilet etc.
10- if you have ever given gifts or done any kind of financial slavery - [This is about submission, not money. I have turned down much money from kinky men. I am not a pro-domme.]
11- your name and phone number. If you cannot give your phone number - do not respond.
12- Attach a face photo.
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With all the precautions I take, I was stood up, yet again today for meeting someone for the first time.
What kind of upbringing does one have to do something like this, in any lifestyle?
How hard is it to say you are unsure & cancel, instead of flake, after pursuing Me to meet?
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**I have noticed that many male slaves are not submissive by nature. Within play-acting they are submissive, but in general they are more dishonest, cunning, non-compromising and manipulative than vanilla men !
They have their own agenda and try repeatedly to play the lifestyle dom. I think these men are better suited for pro-doms. And yet they look for lifestyle doms. |
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This last slave was a piece of work.
I told him specifically:
- we have a trial period and see if there is connection
- to be honest if he does not want to serve, not to just flake
He insisted though he wants to serve me for the longest time, and then he flaked.
More excuses for last minute cancellations:
- It is slave's birthday
- Slave's sister has gone into labor
These excuses cannot be used regularly for obvious reasons.
These lying slaves need a THERAPIST not a Mistress. Sick of flakes.
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Why is it that some slaves are PRACTICED LIARS? I yet have to come across a sincere and submissive slave/dog. |
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People should understand the correct meaning of slave and submissive. If these terms are used correctly then fewer people would be confused. It is also good not to feel guilty about wanting to be in the lifestyle. An act between consensual adults is ok.
Slave - This role was established originally in European royal courts. Slaves served WITHOUT reservation nor wants nor needs. Slave was not expected/allowed sexual pleasure.
Submissive - This role derived from the role of slave. Submissive enjoys submissive activities and has wants/needs. Fetish, kinks are often parts of its needs.
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I am a lifestyle domme. The number of liars, fakes, flakes and those who top from bottom has ruined it for me. |
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| Age: 28 |
| Batavia,
New York |
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