If you're thinking of contacting me please read my entire profile first! Thanks!

If you are married and your spouse does not know of your activities, do not bother to contact me!
If you are a male submissive interested only in sexual or online service don't waste my time or yours. I am a sadist, and to satisfy me you must be a masochist of some degree! Let me repeat that...I'm a sadist...so if you don't want to take pain of some variety for me then I'm probably not the one for you! That's not to say that giving pain is all I'm about, but it is part of my play style.
If you live in another state I'm probably not interested. I don't care that you're willing to relocate. If you don't already live within driving distance of Fayetteville, NC and can't drive there more than once a month don't bother emailing me!
Hi there,
If you are looking for THE ONE, please move on. I don't believe that any one person can be everything to another. I have many wonderful people in my life, and we all have something unique to offer to one another.

At the moment I"m not in a position to accept a 24/7 slave into my home, so if you're looking for that right now you might want to look elsewhere. I'm not opposed to that situation coming about eventually, but it won't be in the very near future. I'm perfectly willing to chat with people who are looking for new friends or just good conversation, but if you email an offer of service, keep in mind that I'm happily married and not willing to immediately add you as a third into our relationship. I'm collared to my husband, yes that means he's my Master, so I"m not interested in any Doms.

I'm looking for a female submissive to serve me and perhaps my husband as well. I prefer a woman who's at least marginally height/weight proportionate, and definitely at least a little masochistic and willing to push her limits. If no blood or skin breakage is a limit for you I advise you to look elsewhere. I don't insist on such play right at the outset, but both my husband and I enjoy such play and it would be on the table eventually.

I want a woman who has intelligence and passion. I prefer that she not be married or otherwise involved, but if she's in an open and honest relationship that can be discussed. I will not get involved with anyone who is cheating on their spouse. If your husband/wife doesn't know about your activites, please don't contact me.
I insist on discretion due to my husband's career. This doesn't mean that we're hiding it, but I'd prefer that it not be discussed in front of certain people. We insist on honesty. If you aren't honest, we can't trust you. Without trust there's nowhere for the relationship to go.
Age is relative. As long as you are older than 18, and younger than 40 we'd be willing to at least consider you. I'm much more interested in intelligence and maturity than the number of years you've lived.

If we ask for proof of health you must be willing to provide it. We'll gladly provide the same in return.
I'm looking for a friend, a lover, a companion, a servant, and a submissive. I don't want to play on the phone or online, and I don't want a one-night stand.
If after all that you're still interested, feel free to drop me a line.

I'm also online at .com as SwitchyGirl82 if anyone cares to look me up there.