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	I am a confident, professional, dominatrix. That doesn't mean I have a need to shout or terrify you into submission. I will beguile you. If you are new to the BDSM lifestyle then right here is a good place to start. I believe wholeheartedly that play should be safe, sane and consensual, as well as non-judgemental. You will either live in the South of the UK or be prepared to travel to my chambers. No "online". Real life only.

12/22/2017 12:05:56 PM

Mmmmmm... a fabulous start to the Christmas holidays. A foot worship slave to make me feel relaxed.

4/10/2012 1:24:45 AM

New photos added to my profile today. Go check them out! :)

3/14/2012 12:46:55 PM

My theory is that highly intelligent, driven business people are those who are truly drawn to BDSM. Forget the plethora of wannabes - they are just desperate lonely people looking for an excuse for quick, easy sex. BDSM is far deeper than that. It is about the release of tensions, an escape from the pressure of having to be the one in control all the time. Even leaders need to stop leading from time to time. It doesn't make that person weak. Quite the opposite. It shows they have the power to give their submission freely.

3/9/2012 7:11:00 AM

My new website is up and running! So excited! It was long overdue. Thanks to FetishWeb for building it for me.

6/18/2010 12:03:47 PM

Sharing experiences is all part of life's rich tapestry.

6/3/2010 4:08:31 AM

There is nothing wrong with living out a fantasy 'online', but it is better for everyone if those who want that are honest with others and - more importantly - with themselves. Pretending that it will lead to 'real life' and then getting cold feet at the last minute does no-one any good. Be honest, folks! Just be honest!

4/15/2010 1:44:46 AM

"I ask for so little. Just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave." An interesting quote from the film Labyrinth.

3/1/2010 1:05:55 PM

This seems to be more prevalent amongst male doms and male switches for some reason; the need to share details about ailments and hospital visits. Gentlemen, that is almost as off putting as a graphic photo of your "second brain". We all suffer illnesses from time to time, but a potential partner/sub doesn't want to read it in your journal entries. Keep it private, or if you can't, share it with your friends on Facebook!

12/7/2009 10:23:37 AM

We are all different. We are all individual. Take the time, folks, to fill in your "checklist". It might seem mundane and as if you have just placed yourself on a supermarket shelf, but it gives others a way to seeing some of the things that appeal to you as an individual. Those who take the time to read said checklists must also remember this is just a "snapshot" and not the whole person.

12/4/2009 11:19:12 AM

Gentlemen: Please take the time to review your profiles. Check the spelling and grammar (many ladies like attention to detail). Be positive in your profile text and in your journal entries (we all know there are fakes here - you do not need to state it as well so find something happy to say). Get a couple of nice facial shots on your profile. If you are not able to for privacy reasons, then make them interesting and artistic. Genitalia shots should be avoided at all costs; we know what it looks like, we do not need a colour photo of it.

11/15/2009 1:51:58 AM

It is not always apparent to those who are new to this lifestyle that there is a ratio of something like 20:1 male subs to female Dommes. They quickly become frustrated and some give up the search. Don't. Nothing worth having is ever going to be easy to find. Your search may be long and arduous, but the rewards will ultimately be great.