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MrSpankSir
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Keeeth
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kimberlysissi
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delicateguy
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ls
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HelenaHandbasket
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OthelloSub
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meganwils
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Nutmagnet
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unnamedservant
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sobriquet
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peoplezoo
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puget
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malesubling
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BettyNburt
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Hers4ever73
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| **If you take the time to send me an email, show that you've read my profile and can put some thought into your reply. One-liner/one-word emails will be deleted without response. I am ONLY looking for local, non-smoking, emotionally mature submissives or slaves. I am not interested in long-distance or online-only relationships. I prefer that you be single and interested in a long-term, potential live-in situation, but that is not absolutely required. I do not accept random friend requests. If I don't know you, send me a message telling me why you think we should be friends.**
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What am I looking for? First and foremost, I want a boyfriend who likes to treat his Girlfriend like a Queen, who loves to please Her by taking care of Her needs and making Her life easier, and who lives to get strap-on fucked in the ass!? This boy should be detail oriented and strive to do the best job he can at whatever it is he does for the simple joys of doing something well and pleasing his Queen. I want him to be able to carry on a polite, intelligent conversation involving a wide range of topics as well as actively listen while not forgetting his place or manners. This boy will be comfortable with silence and will not need to fill every moment with music, chatter, or some other noise, he will be comfortable being alone. I?d like to own a pet that can spend hours discussing (not arguing or debating) Plato or Buber, the latest TED talk, or some article he just read online as well as play cards, board games, or MMOs. My pet would enjoy quiet evenings spent cuddled on the couch watching TV almost as much as long, drawn out scenes in my play room.
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What am I like? I'm a married, polyamorous, bisexual, geeky Dominant BBW. I work full time and am a partner in a small business. I have VERY limited time so drama and games will not be tolerated. I am NOT exclusive. I play with and love others. ??I enjoy having fun when I play. I like laughter and teasing just as much as I enjoy a good serious or rough scene.?
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I will insist upon complete, open, and honest communication as well as active, engaged listening. I do not appreciate being argued with, however. I will be approached with sincere deference.
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I will also expect him to have and demonstrate emotional maturity in addition to the drive, dedication, and determination to maintain a job, go to school, or have a career.
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I will ask him often what he is thinking and/or feeling and expect nothing but honest answers. But I do expect him to have answers. This means he will need to know who he is, what it is he is thinking or feeling, and how to communicate that verbally or in written form.
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I will not put up with dishonesty, cheating, stealing, drama, games, or cruelty. If you are looking for/in need of a counselor or mother, look elsewhere. I do not want a mindless slave, or an automaton. I do not want a yes-boy or a push over. I want someone who has his own strength and yet still knows his place. I want someone who can, and will, give themselves to me, defer to me, and trust me to make the right decisions.
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I believe in the power of pain to release energy. I feel that as long as the players involved know that the goal of the scene is to release energy (be it sadness, frustration, anger, etc.) within the negotiated boundaries, then powerful and unexpected cleansing can occur.
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I am not into genital destruction of any kind. I believe the body is beautiful in all its forms. That said, I am not opposed to body modification (tattoos, piercings, branding, cutting, cell popping, etc.). I find body modification to be a very intimate experience that can, at times, reach into the spiritual.
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When Domme and sub are playing on the same wavelength it can be as though an electrical circuit has been completed. Without the sub there is no Domme. The sub provides the power to the Domme, the Domme provides the safety and guidance to the sub so they may give up that power without coercion for it must be given freely or not at all.
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A sub is a powerful person. I believe that subs should not be coming into their submission through weakness but from a position of strength. Attractive and powerful is the sub with self-knowledge, understands why he is sub, and has the ability to surrender completely.
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A date with an awesome submissive on 12/23 has since turned into 7 dates. I am one very lucky bitch! |
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You wouldn't start a conversation with a vanilla girl by describing how you want her to suck your cock... so why would anyone think it's OK to start a conversation with a Domme about how you want her to fuck your ass??? |
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I am so tired of posers!
I'm very clear that I live this lifestyle 24/7 and that I am looking for someone who does as well. Yet, I keep getting contacted by guys who only want to talk about their fantasies and how it is that I can please them.
Sorry guys, but when I'm not in the mood for play, that's the time you should be pampering and caring for me. Not talking about how hard your cock is or how you wish I were using you at the moment.
I want service. 24/7. I want you to feel fulfilled by serving me and knowing you did it well. I want you to get excited about taking care of me and my household. Maybe not as excited as you would if I were taking you with my strappy but I want a well-rounded kinky relationship. Not one that only thrives in the bedroom.
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Feeling very melancholy today. Endings are never easy. |
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You surprised me. Took me completely off guard, out of the blue.. shot into my life like a whirlwind. I should have guessed that you'd rush out in the same manner.
When we started I tried very hard to keep my heart to myself. I remember telling others that this was not going to get deep. It was just play, just a diversion, just a way to release the stress of all my other roles. We couldn't be more because our goals for the future ultimately conflicted. You wanted training and I ... I wanted a keeper.
Somewhere, along the line, you surprised me again. Somehow, as I was gaining your trust, you gained mine and I let you in. I let you deep into my heart, into my life... I could have devoured you... I thank you for not giving me the chance.
You played a big part in helping me regain my self confidence. You made me feel desirable and showed me that I'm deserving of a slave who loves and worships me. You helped me form a clearer picture of what it is I'm looking for in a lifetime submissive/slave. I will be forever grateful for all the time we've had together and the times we will have in the future. We have a bond, you and I... a bond that will hold us together as friends if nothing else.
I was your first in so many areas. You were the first to wear my collar. I love you. I wish you nothing but happiness.
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It takes a
BIG person, to accept full responsibility for their own
happiness.
It takes an even BIGGER person to accept full responsibility
for their own unhappiness.
But, it takes a spiritual GIANT, who
upon realizing any degree of unhappiness, decides to be the change they seek -
in spite of having to endure the "same old, same old" that may still linger on
for awhile.
Here's to being the change I seek.
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| A question
to ask yourself each morning, that really lights fires, gongs bells, and
summons resources is, "What little, mortal, baby steps can I take today that
will demonstrate expectancy, prepare for my dream's manifestation, and above
all, place me within reach of life's magic?"
Please, ask this question, and then answer it with those little, baby
steps, even when they're sometimes the same steps you took yesterday. I promise
you, you'll go down in history as a giant among your kind.
It's never too late,
The Universe |
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This is fitting:
One of the most stringent conditions all angels must meet, other than double-advanced harp playing and skydiving abilities (not necessarily at the same time), is that they must not allow themselves to feel hurt or rejected by the choices made by others, no matter how much they've done for them nor how great their love. |
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I will allow things to develop as they may. I will not worry about things beyond my control. I will be aware of my own fears and projections and nip them in the bud before they have a chance to manifest. I will be in tune with the energies from within and without. I will do all I can to foster safety and trust. I will allow myself to be vulnerable, open, available. I will not shy from my ability to connect with others. I must remember that while the connection sometimes leads to great pain it also leads to extensive joy. I will love with all my heart. I will laugh with all my soul. I will rejoice in what is now instead of mourning what is not. |
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To touch Me is to caress My mind. To turn Me on is to engage My thoughts. To entice Me is to earn My trust. To keep Me is to be honest with My heart. |
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Sometimes The Universe knows just what to say...
| If right this very moment, I could take you for a long walk behind the curtains of time and space and reveal to you all that you cannot now see... the magic and miracles of creation, the secrets and mysteries of the past, the countless forgotten friendships you've made, the rainbows and waterfalls of the cosmos, and all of the adventures that will one day sweep you off your feet... do you know what would eventually surprise you the most?
How homesick you'd be for all you now have... drama included.
You rock,
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If your body is a temple, I have marked up sacred space. Because you begged me to.
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| Age: 31 |
| Bronx,
New York |
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