READ my profile before attempting to contact me. I am getting tired of those who message me after reading only partial of my profile. If you wish to communicate with me, MESSAGE ME FIRST - I WILL NOT CHAT WITH ANYONE BEFORE MESSAGING. Unless you have read my WHOLE profile, you are wasting my time.

I am a very demanding owner who seeks a very submissive and obedient slave. My life is not to center upon yours, but yours upon mine.

1. I want a slave who knows and understand their place. The slave knows how to please their Owner by being able to read/anticipate the Dom/me's desires and needs so that the Dominant does not have to repeat the orders or desires.

2. I am not looking for a romantic relationship but a cuckold, in a way. I would go out, have fun sexually wether it be instructing you to pleasure me (if I decide to use you that way) or from another while you are denied sexual gratification unless I feel generous.

3. I will consider older and younger. But my interest isn't purely sexual, sex is only a portion of my Dominance and even then that does not mean I'll use you in that manner. If you are around my age and I wish to sexually use you then I may use to to gain my pleasure, whether that be using you to give me oral or me just teasing you beyond reason.

4. During sex I will not be penetrated in any manner unless I give you explicit permission. If I do not use you sexually the slave will NOT press the issue, beg for it or ask for it. It is a privilege NOT A RIGHT.

5. I enjoy begging and asking permission but I will NOT tolerate whining, excuses or laziness.

6. I am currently working, however I am also looking for a position that more related to my field of discipline. I have recently received my Masters degree and am now seeking to find a job that utilizes my education. I want my slave(s) to be working as well. Even when I receive a professional position, I will have a slave at home instead of working. I know the place of a slave is to serve me at all times, and one way of doing that is working out in the vanilla world. (I will explain this more in-depth should we speak during messages.)

8. I do not want any transvestites, cross-dressers (unless I like the way you look in those clothes), adult babies (I like age play but not where a grown adult wears diapers and speaks incomprehensibly) and the like.

8. There are many things a slave can do to please me. These are a few outside of the bedroom:
(a) drive me wherever I want to go no matter the time
(b) run errands no matter what it might be
(c) cook -actually cook not heat something up (If I wanted something heated up, I'd do that on my own. It's a slave's responsibility to generate comfort in their Dominant's life.)
(d) clean
(e) wash laundry - organize, fold and place correctly.
(f) message feet - give pedicures. I don’t want someone who believes they can pass off just painting toenails as a pedicure. I understand that there is no way you can be a professional but you could study and learn how to do it properly.

9. My desire is to have at least one 24/7 slave. I do not seek my live-in 24/7 slave in Nebraska. I will only be living in Nebraska at long as it takes me to find a position in my field. It is where I gain my professional employment where I will start to consider live-in 24/7.

BDSM is not all sex. It seems that is what many believe that is what is for. It is a way to be kinky; that is NOT what I seek. If you are just in this lifestyle for the sex, then do NOT contact me. Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy the sexual aspect of it as well as the next person but I will not have sexual actions with those I do not have any desire to use sexually (as stated earlier in the profile).

What I enjoy doing: orgasm control, tease/denial, cuckold, cbt, blindfolds, cuffs, bondage in some ways, DISCREET public play (this is because I believe doing things right under someone's nose is more entertaining and I find enjoyment doing some type of messing around without them knowing), I do a little age play, and other such things. Sometimes I enjoy giving the slave anal teasing or having them do things with a dildo.

I WILL NOT DO GOLDEN SHOWERS, SCAT, BLOOD, ANIMALS AND/OR DIAPERS.

Don’t ask me if I have toys because the answer is no. The reason for this: if the slave is responsible for the toys used on them, the slave will have to more respect for the items used on them and thus the person who uses the toys on them. The toys will be seen as an extension of the Owner. This is something I heard from someone I know, really thought about it and see that it makes sense.

I do not do hypnosis because to me it is saying the slave is looking for an excuse to blame their submissive side on someone else having mind control over them. There is a difference between pure power exchange (sensual power exchange) and hypnosis.

I also do not use costumes or such because that is another way of hiding yourself from your true personality, your true self and that is not how BDSM should be.

I have run into many fakes in my time and do not wish to waist time with any more of those who make promises and disappear they’ve gotten off.

I WANT REALTIME not someone who is seeking online or can only do online.

Don’t waist my time if you are not willing to relocate to me. Know that I can not relocate because where I am I am currently content and have plans as to where I will go next. If you wish to be mine know that I will be moving from my current residence to my new when I move on to my permanent place of residence and have no plans to move from there.

If you wish to contact me be sure to have a picture sent with the e-mail because I would want to know what you look like. I will not send a picture of myself until I have seen a picture of you.

I do not want empty promises so unless you truly really believe you can fulfill my every wish and desire and position then do not contact me.