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Lifestyle Domme. Many years of experience. Seeking naturally born submissive, devoted, male sub. A bisexual cuckold would be ideal. your experience is not as important as your eagerness to learn and serve.

So many people mistake kindness and good manners with weakness. That is a very bad mistake in MY case. I can assure you that although I will treat you with kindness and respect as a human being, I am ALWAYS your SUPERIOR. I know My place above you as a DOMME and I will at every level exercise My strength over you. One need not be rude to be strong. Just as one can be strong and submit, One can be Kind and be a Domme.

Here is My fantasy life, that I hope to be living soon. I am married to My kinky little sex whore, because the things I want you to do for Me can only be reached in the deep connection of a loving relationship.

To be My husband you must be a strong Alpha male in the Vanilla world, and a professional who can provide Me with a wonderful lifestyle. We have a bond and connection that most others would never understand, because I own your body, mind, soul, and heart, and you have no secrets from Me. I love the fact that you are an Alpha male in the Vanilla world and My slutty little whore behind closed doors.

It is understood and accepted that while you are earning a living for Me, I need some service and attention at home. I have a sub or subs at home to attend to the boring details of being a Servant/Butler/Secretary.

Those slaves are rarely or never used for sex. Their joy comes from serving Me outside the bedroom. My husband's joy comes from providing Me with a wonderful lifestyle and being My Kinky bisexual cum slut.

All the people in the household serve Me and My needs in very different ways. But it is completely understood that I am The Mistress, to be obeyed, adored, and devotion to My happiness is primary.

Recently I have developed an eagerness to own a couple. Any combination of gender identies is fine? M/M, F/F, M/F. I am very open minded about this. I would love to add a couple who identifies as sub/slave to My household.

Contact Me only if you are attaching a pic, are willing and able to relocate, and are willing to join a Poly household of My choosing.

I have received many emails. Sorry, it is IMPOSSIBLE to respond to all. I will take the time to respond if you meet My requirements.

I was finally able to upload a pic here. But chat rarely works. If you want to know more about Me check out an ALTERNATIVE (hint) profile with the same screen name. I have different pics and more details there. If you want to IMPRESS ME, read both profiles.

If you are a Dom looking to switch, you will be deleted. My requirements are serious and there are, as we all know, plenty of men for Me to choose from.

If you are local to the SF area AND you meet My prerequisites, you will be at the top of the list.

Ciao

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11/25/2012 11:25:59 AM
Now accepting applications for part time maid, secretary, personal assistant. Please be able to devote at least 10 hours per week to attend to My needs. Five hours a day on weekends would be ideal. Mistress

11/7/2012 6:17:40 PM
Every time I see the list people submit under "hard limits" that's the first thing I want to do to or with them....heehee

9/22/2012 11:11:32 AM
I have neglected My journal for a few months. The trip to Oregon and Washington was lovely. Crater lake is unusually beautiful. Saw Multmomah falls and some gorgeous places in Washington. But really enjoyed the company of My sister back down the coast. Stopped in Eureka to spend time with more family and friends. Had a family reunion in My hometown in August. I am officially the palest person among so many lovely brown people. I am half Mexican, but I got My Mother's lovely Irish skin. LOL And I just had a High School reunion last weekend. I won't say how many years, but it has been awhile. One of My friends now lives in Santa Barbara, where I went to College. I do love that part of California. When I win the lottery I WILL buy a home there... Smiles

6/14/2012 10:32:22 PM
First vacation in 4 years. In 2008 I was in India. This time a road trip closer to home. In Medford Oregon heading to Crater Lake National Park tomorrow. Then up to Washington state and back down the Oregon and California coast. Gorgeous weather so far.

6/8/2012 8:26:27 PM
I have eclectic taste in art and music. I can see beauty in the mundane and the surreal. I am well educated by the University of California, and the challenges and opportunities of everyday life. I crave connections and social intercourse because that is where I thrive. I expect my partners to rise to an intellectual, spiritual, and ethical level that I desire and control. Are you open to the challenge and possibilities of an intelligent, well rounded, relationship? That is the question.

5/24/2012 9:40:04 PM
The passions in the air excite Me. A story well told, a good glass of port, the sweet smell of apple blossoms in the backyard, transcendent music, a good looking man, kneeling at My feet. I think I have Spring fever....LOL

2/29/2012 10:51:17 PM
Today is Leap day. The day when Women can ask men for their hand in marriage in the Irish culture, so My Mother and Grandmother told Me. Too bad I can't find a male worthy of such affection and good fortune... The search continues, but is hopefully over before the next Leap day. Hmm yes that's it, packing My bags for the Emerald Isle.

2/18/2012 10:11:32 AM
Time for a new post and of course a new attitude. For some reason I still keep coming back to find mr right for Me. Seems like an endless journey, but there IS fun along the way, in addition to all the crappy stuff. Just wish the fun parts far outweighed the crap LOL....gotta laugh cuz cryin duz me no good

1/18/2012 6:15:01 PM
Was it really just 13 days ago that I was so happy and excited? Less than a fortnight as the Europeans would say. Well LOL he dumped me in a text message today because I wasn't paying enough attention to him. That's right, so sorry, I forgot that this D/s relationship was all about him and his needs. I told him that my mother was in the hospital and that I had major family drama around that...6 brothers and sisters...Irish/Mexican Catholic...the double whammy of Catholicism and guilt trips. So fucking sorry that I couldnt be excited about your desire for kinky phone sex the other night. I got a letter of rejection for a job interview I really wanted. Goddess forbid that I have a life or an ambition that competes with your idea of the perfect sexual fantasy of what a Fem Dom should do to serve you sir. Hmmmm and I really thought that you might be interested in Me and My life, and being a blessing instead of a burden. Best of luck with your wish list of needs that come before making a real connection with a Real Woman who has a real life outside of BDSM. Seek a professional, there are plenty on here who will focus their attention on you and disregard their life in order to make your tiny little cock and ego hard. Fuck.....

1/6/2012 5:59:45 PM
For the first time in a very long time, I'm very excited about a new boy. He really might be the one I've been searching for. I haven't felt this way about anyone since my ex hubby....ah the blush of a new love.....

10/21/2011 10:04:48 PM
Some of My favorite sayings: I love men, I think all Women should own at least one. I want it all, and I want it delivered by cute naked men. Men are like dogs, only dogs are smarter and easier to train. Men are like high heels, easy to walk on with a little practice.

9/11/2011 11:13:27 AM
Just spent the weekend in Calistoga, St. Helena. Mmmmm life just does not get better than amazing food, wine, and good friends. Great massage too. The only thing missing is My loving sub boy by My side....sigh

8/6/2011 10:19:28 AM
Well I finally moved to the south bay. I'm now in San Jose. I have a date tonight with a very promising boy from this site. Very excited. Will update more tomorrow.

6/28/2011 6:26:31 PM
Had a great birthday with friends and family. Looking forward to moving soon. No more long commute, much closer to work. More time for ME...hmmm what to do? LOL mmmmwwwaaaaaaaahhhhhaaaahahahahahahaha

5/30/2011 9:01:09 PM
The wedding was wonderful. And the sun even came out right on cue. Now getting ready for the next chapter of My life. Moving soon. I will still be in Northern California, just closer to San Jose than San Francisco.

3/16/2011 8:22:21 PM
Yipee finally something to be happy and excited about. An upcoming wedding. So much fun to plan. It's for My sister. Alas, I am still searching for the perfect devoted sub/slave...

2/24/2011 8:42:36 PM
Time for an update. I think I am finally feeling spring in My heart and My spirit. I am feeling refreshed after a long down period. Finally more able to concentrate on life and the everyday tasks at hand. Less living in My thoughts and more eager for intercourse with the world, sexual and otherwise LOL.... Smiles Super excited to connect with new people and old friends. Look out world cuz I'm Foxy Cleopatra and I'm a whole lotta Woman. Hahahahahahahahahahaha super bonus points if you know that movie reference.

12/15/2010 6:24:28 PM
After a long illness, and ten weeks in hospice care, my father is finally at rest. Thanks to all the kind people on this site for your thoughts. I really do appreciate the sense of community here. We had a complicated relationship. And I am struggling with mixed emotions right now. I guess that's pretty normal.

11/16/2010 7:23:05 PM
Got My new iPad...just getting used to it. Thank goodness we were able to recover the hard drive on the dead computer.

11/8/2010 11:52:55 AM

Hi all,

 

My computer died so I am using My Sister's intermittently until My new one arrives. Patience is required until then.


10/28/2010 7:38:58 PM

I am bold enough to be transparent and will never try to be something I am not. I know that there are plenty of people out there who will be attracted to Me just as I am. And you will never have to guess what I am thinking, because I will fucking tell you. And even if you don't agree with Me, I am smart enough to know that it doesn't matter, because I am right!! LOL this is too weed out the weak ones right off the bat. LOL I just realized that I am really in the mood to beat the crap out of someone right now. A nice ball busting would be great, flogging, MMMMMMMMMM. I have a lovely wooden paddle that needs a nice ass to spank. 


10/7/2010 8:47:22 PM
True Ownership can only occur in a long term relationship. Everything else is mental masturbation.

10/3/2010 6:34:01 PM
I want to thank everyone for your warm words of support during this difficult time with My father. He is in hospice care now and only has a very short time left. But says he is eager for the next chapter to begin. Thanks again to this wonderful community for all of your kindness.

9/21/2010 9:19:51 PM
Thanks to everyone on here for the kind words and good wishes. For now, My father is doing better. Out of the coma and dealing with his own health issues for now.

9/15/2010 8:26:55 PM
Plagued with family drama lately. My father is in the hospital and not doing well. He has strained relationships with everyone in his life. His kids, his brother and sister. It's taking a toll on Me. BREATHE JUST BREATHE....I keep reminding Myself.

8/26/2010 12:07:23 AM

Just saw Dave Matthews Band at the Concord Pavilion. WOW what an amazing show. : )


8/6/2010 9:41:43 PM
I am craving a nice icy margarita...Hmmm peach flavored would be wonderful...on the beach somewhere in Mexico. Relaxing on a chaise lounge with a cute naked boy kneeling next to Me. That is what would put a smile on My face. : )

7/29/2010 8:30:03 PM
Just when I think things cannot possibly get any more horrible...A colleague commits suicide. Been a rough couple of years. When will this madness end? Been about 6 suicides in the last 4 years. I know times are tough for so many. I wish I could do more to help. I guess it's time to go back to school and get that PhD in Psycology.

7/17/2010 6:15:14 PM
Went shopping with My sister today. Sometimes I just need some good retail therapy to feel Womanly LOL...Good sale at Macy's. Got some really cute stuff for work and for the summer heat. I love being a Girly Girl hahahahahahahaha...

7/16/2010 8:37:11 PM
A relationship that I really enjoyed has come to an end. He was a good sub in so many ways. But it NEVER pays to play with married people. A person cannot serve 2 Mistresses. I hate it when I make exceptions to My rules. And this just reminds Me that I need to stick to My guns. With resolve to find a wonderful single man that can devote himself to Me and only Me....the search continues.

6/29/2010 12:06:07 AM
Ok it's been awhile since I put something meaningful in here. I was busy the last 9 months with a nice sub. Turns out he is not the one for Me. But we spent some nice time together. I am speaking to a couple of nice guys right now. Very promising. One is in NYC the other here in California....Hmmm let's see what happens.

6/20/2010 8:43:51 AM
Ughhh. Everytime I start chatting with someone interesting I get kicked off the server and can't get back on. So annoying.

4/27/2010 8:11:02 PM
Well, I have had My computer back for 2 weeks now and it seems to be working fine. So the hunt for the right person/people continues. But now every time I log on to Collarme seems there is some kind of server problem sooooo slow to load.

2/17/2010 7:29:36 PM
Well, My computer is fixed but they lost it. Just waiting for them to find it or give Me a new one LOL...great customer service.

1/7/2010 3:07:47 PM
Hey everyone, I am having computer problems and Mine is in the shop. Patience please.

11/8/2009 5:38:51 PM
I am still searching for a good house slave. I need an organized hard working secretary and butler. If you are good at yard work that would be a plus.

11/8/2009 3:10:17 PM
I like this boy. I think he will be Mine.

11/7/2009 5:36:43 PM
I am meeting a boy tonight. I am excited for the first time in a long time. Hmmmmm

10/10/2009 6:31:50 PM
I am getting sick again. Which is really not fun at all. Drinking lots of juice and taking vitamin C. I hate being sick it makes Me cranky. I need a sub to be My nurse and bring Me tea!

10/2/2009 12:03:44 AM
Folsom was AMAZING. Met lots of wonderful people. Only problem was the weather. TOO HOT. Hope next year is a bit cooler. Will be posting a pic soon.

9/26/2009 10:17:43 AM
I am so excited for the Folsom Street Fair. Just got a lovely new corset black and red silk with lace trim and garters, frilly black short petticoat skirt, and black leggings. Twisted My ankle so will have to wear flat shoes. Getting a pedicure and getting My hair done today. I am going to look FABULOUS LOL ;)

9/21/2009 9:53:25 PM
I am so sick of men asking Me how much I charge for sessions. Why do I have to constantly explain to masturbating idiots that I AM NOT a professional Domme. There are plenty of them out there. One would think finding a Lifestyle Domme would be more exciting. Sometimes I feel like giving up and turning PRO.......FUCK IT........I am accused of it all the time, might as well get paid. Would you walk up to a Vanilla Woman and ask her how much she charged? DUH

9/6/2009 12:58:37 PM
Oh the interesting turns that this journey called life takes. My ex called Me begging for My attention. LOL Reminds Me of that old joke where the masochist is tied to the St. Andrew's Cross and begs the sadist to beat him, and the sadist whispers in his ear "No". LOL so much pleasure and pain in one word of denial.

9/5/2009 7:05:24 PM
Hmmm haven't written for awhile. I have a wonderful prospect, crossing My fingers and hoping things can work out. Still having fun looking. I Like . Meeting some cool people there as well.

7/21/2009 7:20:26 PM
The clouds of depression have parted a little and a small sliver of sun is shining through the darkness. I am not sure why. I am just finally feeling happier today. I am also finally feeling physically stronger after that bout with pneumonia earlier this year. Everything is temporary, thank goodness. Even with the challenges and this crazy roller coaster ride that is LIFE, I wouldn't really change much LOL...Well the control freak in Me does need to be expressed more, and I would love to find My new bisexual, cuckold, submissive, lover/husband soon. But the "Hunt" is still intriguing, so I really shan't complain.

6/16/2009 9:54:13 PM
Still having a hard time with all the recent losses. Sigh. Need something positive to cheer Me up.

5/20/2009 2:40:36 PM
We went camping a couple of weeks ago. I was so glad that I was able to take My dog with Me. I lost him last night. He was 10 1/2 years old. So he had a wonderful long life with Me. I had him since he was 8 weeks old. He was My baby. I miss him so much. I am getting his ashes back in a few days, and will be scattering them into the pacific ocean. I think he would like that. He used to doggy paddle out into the surf in Santa Cruz and jump on some random guys surfboard, and they would kindly surf him back in to shore. As I was apologizing for letting him off leash, they were telling Me what a cool dog he was and that it was no problem for them. He was quite a character. So many stories from a lifetime of being a great Dog and a wonderful friend.

5/3/2009 1:46:46 AM
Okay, I was venting about all the frustration I feel in trying to find the perfect (For ME) male. The fact is, that although I am bisexual I truly prefer men. I am hardwired that way. Just like I am hardwired to be Dominant. LOL a girl has to vent...

4/27/2009 9:26:49 PM
AHHHHH I am so sick of men, I have decided to be a complete and total Lesbian. I have already found a beautiful switch girl in her 20's so what can a man offer Me that could compare with THAT?

4/18/2009 2:22:17 PM
Had a setback with asthma problems, but think I am FINALLY on the mend. Easter was lovely. Then the bad news came. On May 1st lots of people getting laid off at My job. I think I might be okay but then there is another round of layoffs coming. Things are really bad all over. Now I really NEED a rich boyfriend LOL....A friend just gave Me a notepad the other day. He saw it in a store and thought of Me. The cover says, "I want it all, and I want it delivered by cute naked men" SIGH, that is the DREAM MMMMMMM. Dreaming of you wherever you are!! Hahahahaha. I have to laugh, because crying really doesn't help right now :)

3/29/2009 9:00:46 AM
AHHHH still sick. I am so tired of coughing. But I am getting slowly better each day. Thanks again to all the supportive people on this site. I am hoping April will be the month that I am all better and can Dance again LOL ;) I love spring, I love Easter. My favorite holiday. Brings back fond memories of getting colorful new dresses and hats as a little girl. All the plants and animals waking up. Oh yeah, and My sex drive gets even higher, spring fever I suppose!! Delightful...

2/20/2009 6:55:16 PM
Ugh! I have been so sick for the past 3 weeks. Missed 2 full weeks at work. Starting to feel a little bit better. And back to My New Year's Resolution. Actually meeting some of My favorite people from this site!!

1/27/2009 5:31:03 PM
I am over the whole crying thing for the moment LOL Thanks for all the lovely supportive comments from far and wide. Someone suggested that I go ahead and date Vanilla again and then just "turn" him into the perfect slave. All due respect to Elise Sutton (who is oft overquoted on this site), But I want someone who was born a slave, who is eager and aching to serve. The other side of My coin. Or as one of My colorful friends used to say, "That's the other side of the tortilla".

1/11/2009 10:53:26 PM
Oh the emotional pain that is the search for My husband. Women feel it too. We have more to choose from, but that does not make the search for the right one any less heart breaking. Part of Me wants to give up and start dating vanilla men again, and hope to find someone in that world. Yes, that is how sad I am at the moment. But....I have never found satisfaction in that world. So the search continues. I want to find him, I know he is out there. And I will find him. But first, I will have a good cry.

12/25/2008 10:05:23 AM
Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays to everyone. I hope we all find peace and happiness in the new year.

12/14/2008 8:31:04 PM
I have to confess that I LOVE bisexual submissive men. There is nothing on the planet that is more erotic to Me than that. The anticipation of all the possibilities. The connection of like minds. The titillation. MMmmmmm LOL guess I really need a new boyfriend for Christmas ;)

11/27/2008 10:01:11 AM
Happy Thanksgiving to All on CM. I am busy cooking this year and entertaining. Grateful for My job, My health, My family and good friends. Here's to everyone finding someone by Christmas. :)

11/15/2008 8:25:07 AM
It has been a trying few weeks. I have attended all the services and have found some peace. And My sadness continues. But something surprising has happened as well. I have been energized to find the lifestyle I want. Life is short and precious. There is not time to waste.

10/19/2008 8:50:31 PM
My dear friend lost her battle with cancer yesterday. And the week ahead will be filled with mourning and funeral plans. I want to thank EVERYONE on collarme who has contacted Me to express their feelings and share their stories. I am always moved by how people can be so supportive in difficult time. This is a good community of people. I feel blessed.

9/14/2008 7:22:07 PM
My apologies to all My CM friends. I am having a rough time dealing with a dear friend who is like a sister to ME who happens to be dealing with cancer. I don't know if I will have the pleasure of Her company on this plane of existence much longer. I am eternally greatful for the last 19 years and I love Her dearly. I am a bit sad and depressed at the moment and not good company. I am saving all of My extra energy for Her.

8/26/2008 7:24:07 AM
Ahh this roller coaster that is life! Reminds Me of a Frank Sinatra song LOL I am excited for the moment about a new prospective relationship, and I have actually been connecting with some REAL people from CM who would have guessed.

8/17/2008 3:33:56 PM
Well, seems I need to clarify. I decided not to move. I will be staying in Concord for another year probably. But there is still a lot of activity going on at My house at the moment. Room mates moving out. And a cherished Sister moving in. Busy Busy Busy...

7/6/2008 10:22:48 PM
Getting ready for a new chapter in My life. I am moving from Concord to Santa Clara. But that is just logistics. I will be "single" again for the first time in a long time. I am quite happy about this as it was of course My decision. I am looking forward to living alone and focusing My attention on My goals. Finding the perfect slave being the number one goal for the next few months. As always there are several candidates with great potential. But finding that needle in the haystack that excites every fiber in My being, well, that is a journey worth cherishing. And the quest continues....

7/6/2008 10:14:55 AM
Okay, I just noticed that a few more people have subscribed to My journal. And I have not entered anything for a while. So let's start with more details about India. We were in Hyderabad for My brother's wedding because that is where My Sister-in-law was born and raised. She is an amazing Woman. Very Dominant. An aberation in Her culture. But since My brother has 4 older Sisters who have trained him well, I would expect him to make a good choice in a wife, and he did not disappoint. India was spectacular. Seeing it from the inside and not as a tourist was amazing. The Hindu culture takes about a week to celebrate the coupling. And everything is done in absolute colorful splendor. Flowers, exchanging of gifts, beautiful Saree's in amazing fabrics everywhere you look. The focus in on nature and natural objects like spices, coconuts, water, and rice. It reminded Me very much of the Mexican half of My family. No one is afraid of color or spices. From the food to the clothing, very similar. The traffic, wow. How to describe it. Like bees at a hive everyone seems to know where they are going and there is no space between cars, but no one seems to hit each other. The honking is a cacophony, but seems to be meaningful. My brother warned Me that some people in that part of India had never seen a white skinned person. But since everyone has television I thought he was exaggerating. But one day as we were sight seeing at an ancient Persian Fort. My Sister and I became the "sight". People stopped and pointed and looked shocked. We felt like zoo animals LOL Then one day visiting Her Aunt's house just after school let out, We were mobbed by children who wanted to touch us, and we felt like rock stars LOL.... What an amazing country

2/27/2008 8:03:31 PM
I am back from India. What an amazing experience. I am just getting back in the grove after being a bit jet lagged. Should be catching up on all My email soon. ;)

2/4/2008 9:59:11 PM
I am getting ready for My trip to India for My brother's wedding. I am looking forward to it with great joy. I will be back in March and responding to email at that time. Mistress ;)

1/15/2008 9:09:36 PM
Come closer little boy. I want to tell you a secret. I can be your Mother, your Sister, your Confessor, your Mentor, your Teacher, your Guide, your Goddess, your Lover. But I will NOT be your professional Dominatrix and I DO NOT DO "sessions" for money. Oh I get it, I know that money is power. But I am a LIFESTYLE Domme, and the power I crave takes much longer to wrestle from you. And it's the journey I crave.

1/12/2008 10:53:39 AM
I will be moving soon, therefore, I am looking for sub/slave oriented males for NSA housecleaning, packing etc. Obviously, you must be local to the SF bay area.

12/30/2007 9:37:09 AM
It's so easy to be cynical LOL :) But against My better judgement, I actually still like men. So I am approachable, if a little prickly on the outside. you have been warned....

12/29/2007 10:32:15 PM
WELL KISS THE 11/30 ENTRY GOODBYE. HE JUST ACCIDENTALLY TRIPPED AND FELL INTO ANOTHER DOMME AND ENDED UP SERVING HER. LOL IS THAT LIKE FALLING INTO BED AND ACCIDENTALLY FUCKING SOMEONE. YES, I THINK SO. PRETTY CLOSE TO THE SAME THING. YES, I AM ANGRY AND HEARTBROKEN. GOD THIS LIFESTYLE IS INFURIATING SOMETIMES. LET IT BE KNOWN HERE AND NOW, THAT NO ONE GETS A SECOND CHANCE TO SERVE ME. IF YOU ARE LUCKY ENOUGH TO BE GIVEN ONE CHANCE, YOU HAD BETTER MAKE THE MOST OF IT. MISTRESS

12/15/2007 3:49:33 PM
I just got a titanium apple ibook and I LOVE IT!!! Catching up on email. Thanks everyone for your patience. I hope Santa brings all the Naughty people presents first LOL ;)

12/4/2007 7:05:51 PM
Hi everyone, sorry for the inconvenience. I am not ignoring people, I am having computer problems and will most likely have to get a new computer for christmas....

Please be patient and I will get back to you.

Mistress

11/30/2007 1:39:34 AM
I have finally made a great connection on this site. He is a sub, of course not next door, only all the way across the country. But, luckily he is from California originally and willing and able to relocate soon.? I grow more deeply attached to him everyday, and will treat him like the precious property he will become for ME.

9/21/2007 8:43:25 AM
Fascinating problen, does anyone else go through this?? I get a very intriguing email from someone who seems like a great match, and I go to respond, but I can't because the profile is deleted and no longer exists. Hmmmmm is this site playing games to get people to stay?? I have read rants in lots of male profiles about "fake" Dommes, and women from other countries, and too many money Dommes out there. Well boys, I think there are scams aimed at Women too.

9/20/2007 5:06:34 PM
I feel like a lesbian who constantly has to say "NO MEN". So here is My rant. "NO DOMS" NO DOMS no doms....

I adore strong Alpha subs, but WILL NOT tolerate a DOM male, I am not that fond of switches either. Although My opinion ebbs and flows on that one, I have met some "switches" who are mostly sub and can tolerate them.

But I am not looking for a male I can tolerate. I am looking for THE SLAVE OF MY DREAMS. One would think this would be a GOOD THING.

9/17/2007 9:04:30 PM
I am blessed to have friends from around the world. And in MY quest, I have realized that even though I live quite near San Francisco, the "BDSM Capital of the world", it is still hard to find the perfect man to be My next cuckold husband.

My first, now ex-husband, was from Denmark. I absolutely LOVE European men. I think American men, for the most part, are just raised incorrectly. And unfortunately I have never met one that makes Me rethink that conclusion.

I am also very interested in submissive men from Italy, France, Greece, Spain etc.

I don't believe in long distance relationships, I am talking about moving in together and having a long term loving relationship. But that doesn't mean you have to already reside in California, just that eventually you might like to, or eventually I might like to live where you are.

Great now that we have cleared that up....I am also in need of reiterating that I am a LIFESTYLE DOMME. I am not interested in enslaving you for your money or otherwise from afar. Oh I will control everything in the household, but that will come with TIME, TRUST, and RESPECT and those things are to be earned on both sides. It won't take you long to understand that I am for real, once We/we meet, you will see quickly that I am to be Respected and Trusted.

9/17/2007 8:47:05 PM
I am very tired of married men who are cheating on their wives. DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE MARRIED!!! It is just a huge waste of time.

 I am Polyamorous, and I practice ETHICAL non-Monogamy. I would NEVER cheat on either MY cuckold husband or any of MY other Lovers.



8/29/2007 2:14:49 PM
Warning: I am a complicated multi-faceted Woman, and I want "it" all.....

8/29/2007 2:13:03 PM
To be balanced I should also say that I have met some wonderful people on this site. And I was able to make a great connection, and I am hopeful that we will be friends and lovers for long time. No one is perfect, he is not available as My dream man, so applications are still being accepted.

8/29/2007 2:10:35 PM
And disappointment springs eternal LOL... Dear sub males, you are not the only ones who have trouble finding your match. Dommes are hard to come by, and yet still little boys play games and say they will embark on a journey that they are not ready for. If you are too scared to call Me and meet Me, don't bother talking to Me. When I see something I want and like, I am of course, assertive and agressive. That should really not come as a surprise should it?

7/21/2007 3:45:37 PM
Hope springs eternal. I am considering a slave property from Denmark. He has great potential!!!!

7/1/2007 4:45:10 AM
Just finished LMAO at some clever profiles. I love this site...

6/28/2007 7:30:15 PM
Well, I have been taking time to put things in perspective, and process some grief. And I feel better. I also feel like socializing more, so I will be answering email again. Thanks to everone for your patience and understanding.


I am human first, a Woman second, and a Domme, Hmmm well maybe not exactly in that oder LOL :)

6/18/2007 11:47:00 PM
I am having a tough couple of weeks. One friend committed suicide and another just found out She has cancer. Therefore, I am not the best company at the moment, online or otherwise. 

Thanks to everyone for your patience and understanding.



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blonde21cds
 
 Age: 29
 Phoenix, Arizona