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A little about me. I'm one of those alpha males, first born, always in charge who focused all their energies into a business career. It worked. I worked my way to the top of one company and then started my own. For 25 years i traveled the country and the 29 different countries. I learned a lot about different cultures, foods, customs, people. I think it made me very open in my thinking. In the orient i discovered the bdsm lifestyle. I'm so happy I didn't find it online or in a chatroom. I learned the mental part of the lifestyle long before the physical side. I also learned a lot about myself. I now know why some relationships worked while others didn't. It is now time for a real relationship in my life. I've cut back my travel and my work. I am seeking "one" special person. A natural sub who can also exist in the vanilla world. I want someone with a mind, ideas, opinions but also with the ability to transfer 100% of the power to one who she trusts and can give a complete commitment. The trust and commitment will also flow back to her. I'm a professional, have a great career, nice home, a boat, and have many vanilla interests such as boating, cooking, music, travel, entertaining, and much more. I'm seeking balance. Balance between the vanilla world and the bdsm world. There are a lot of people on this site who believe physical chemisty isn't important. I choose to differ. Chemistry on all levels is important to a relationship. I'm in my 50's, good health, not overweight, have all my hair, teeth, no tatoos, I'm a good man, with a good life, good job, seeking a very natural sub with whom to share that life. I'm probably best described as a daddy/dom.
bardgirl
 
 Age: 28
  Massachusetts