Ideal target dynamic

She is an assertive, authoritative Female seeking a devoted male to add value to Her life and support Her in lifes journey. Her vision of lifes journey includes a balanced mixture of vanilla and Ds aspects. She expects monogamy from Her male but may exercise Her option for other lovers (cuckolding) when the mood strikes her.

She will exercise control over Her males daily activities (what he eats, how he dresses, etc.) but does expect a minimum level of self-sufficiency and his ability to learn to be productive on a consistent basis. She believes in maintaining a orderly household and expects Her male to contribute to an orderly household whether that involves yard work, car maintenance, or indoor chores at Her discretion. Failure to meet these expectations would be met with physical punishment and or a reinforcement lesson which may or may not involve a maid outfit for future indoor chores...lol.

She is not a hardcore disciplinarian but does believe in consistent discipline andor humiliation to reinforce Her authoritative position within the FLR dynamic and household. OTK spankings, paddles, straps, face slapping, or generally humiliating tasks will be consistently exercised by Her to achieve this goal or to provide Her stress relief and entertainment value.

She is a firm believer that an edged male is a compliant male and will maintain control over his orgasms. Activities such as tease and denial, edging, and cbt are mainstays within Her toolchest to keep Her male compliant. His orgasms when allowed will mostly be non-traditional in nature whether it be delivered via prostate milking or other anal stimulation (pegging, dildos, vibrators, etc) where penis stimulation does not occur.

Vanilla-wise, She enjoys dining out, cooking at home, going to the movies, binging a season series on Netflix, taking weekend road trips, or spending a quiet weekend at home. She can appreciate a sense of humor as long as it does not conflict with the established power dynamic of the household. She also possesses a softer side which may be exhibited on special occasions (cuddling session in bed) when She deems a reward for Her male is warranted.


About me

Moved to DFW area about 10 years ago and before that moved around quite a bit for my career. I have worked in the IT industry for over 25 years so my career is well established at this point. I enjoy the challenge of keeping up with new IT technologies as they are introduced to the market to keep my IT skillsets current and marketable.

I have a large body type so have historically had better compatibility with BBW females in the past. As I have gotten older, the importance of overall health has become more important so if she can lead us to a healthier lifestyle, that would be fantastic.