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The sweevil Mistress V, the Fetish kinkstress .... ~Capture the mind, and the body will follow~ Are you ready for a new kind of high? A new kind of rush? TPE, total power exchange, gives you the chance to let go for once, and don't you need it? Time to explore the thoughts and desires of submission, kink, and fetishes, a total body experience. Step into My theater, I want to play with your mind, body and soul. I enjoy so many aspects of BDSM/Fetish and Fantasy Role play. Of course all aspects include Me topping you always since I am not a switch, nor will I be one, nor can you be charming enough to think I would want to be one. Got it? Humiliation, spanking bondage, sissy training, public humiliation, foot/boot/shoes worship, S.O.T, C.B.T, N.T, shopping bitches. The list goes on, and I would rather play than spend the day typing about what brings a smile to My face. men women and couples. I enjoy you all. Smiles

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10/9/2017 10:41:23 AM

A gentleman recently asked me why I call myself a Fetish Kinkstress.

If you pop over to my fetish page

, you will see a list that is quite extensive. Many, many different fetishes that I dabble in and am versed in.

In my experience, half of the men that seek out to serve me, are not really submissive/slave types, but more the fetish lovers.

Kinky folks who have no other way to get their kink on.

They figure seeking out a Dominatrix would be the ideal road to travel because we tend to know things other than just the “vanilla”.

I am a Femdom [Female Dominant] and being a Dominatrix/Kinkstress is my craft. I  spent many years watching, studying, learning, researching and doing my craft.

Definition of craft
1. 1:  skill in planning, making, or executing :  dexterity
2. 2a :  an occupation or trade requiring manual dexterity or artistic skill <the carpenter’s craft><the craft of writing plays> <crafts such as pottery, carpentry, and BDSM>b plural :  articles made by craftspeople <a store selling crafts> <a crafts fair>
3. 3:  skill in deceiving to gain an end <used craft and guile to close the deal>
4. 4:  the members of a trade or trade association

I have refined my skills in many different fetishes to help you out in your time of need. Aren’t you so lucky? You are welcome!

But do realize my craft is also how I make a living. I do things other ladies do not. This is why you seek Me out.

You, yourself do not work for free. Whatever you do, you would be livid if someone screwed you out of money for time you put in.

You lil boys are not entitled to a damn thing, especially when your dick is hard.

Just because you make me laugh and drink toilet water because I said so, does not make you any more special than the 20 others whom will do the same thing for me and pay me.

Those boys know they have not found anyone to indulge them, so they seek out one whom has the special skill set to give them a journey, mind, body, and soul!

Respect me enough to know that you were seeking ME. You wanted something in your life that no one was giving you.

Respect yourself enough to know that your therapy and balance is important to you, and save money for it. Skip the lattes and movies boys. Skip the gym membership! There is no shame in spending on your well being.

I am a kink specialist, a kink enthusiast, and I do love and enjoy it. But my time is not FREE. Paying for My time is also NOT FINANCIAL DOMINATION.

Yes I do indulge in the fetish of financial domination / wallet raping / rinsing as well, but gifting my time is not the same.

If there is something that you might be interested in, but it is not listed on my fetish page

 
do ask. I have some things I left off because I do not do them often, or I simply do not enjoy them.

If we will not be compatible, I will tell you, and if possible I will refer you to a Domme whom might have more interest in what you are seeking.

If you are truly submissive/slave and seeking to serve, then your fetishes are not important anyway. True story!

What makes your dick hard, and what gives you pleasure are second to mine. This includes the statement that I hear uttered so often, it pleases me to please you.

If you were a true sub/slave you would understand how that phrase is still wrong. You are still telling me what pleases you, and that is again secondary to mine.

Now ask yourself, which are you, A kinkster? Or a sub/slave? Looking for a fantasy? or reality?

If you come to me with a list of everything you like and want, then I know what your service is all about.

If you come to Me and say, I have sent tributes for your time, I want nothing more than to serve you. Then I know what your service is about.

Don’t be foolish and think that I can not tell the difference from the 2!

No matter if you are a kinkster or a sub/slave, it is still My world. I run the show, I call the shots.

Now, who is next to play with Me and My craft? [Sweevil Grin]


10/3/2017 1:16:57 PM

I hear on the daily from men how they want a female led relationship.

Most of the time it is whining because they can not find one, or they say there are no women who want that.

What I find amusing is that the thing they seek is normally based off of fantasy, and they are doing nothing to invite that type of woman to their space.

What I mean by this is, you are out looking for a woman based on what makes your dick hard. Then you go to her, tell her you like this and that and then you say I am yours, please violate me.

This is not serving her, this is you hoping she will serve your own needs under the guise that you are serving her.

Seriously guys, we are smarter than that!

You need to extend you scope from just one woman, to all woman.

Be the thing they seek. We have eyes and we see things!

Do not put off the poor me, I am entitled vibe. You know exactly what I mean. Don't do it!

Open doors, stand up for ladies.

If someone is joking or shaming, or being derogatory SPEAK UP.

Not because we are not capable of opening doors or defending ourselves, but because you have respect and reverence for females.

Are you a feminist? If no, why not?

Does your ego hurt because it has fem in it?

Get over it!

Feminism is equal for all, and if you want a woman to see you are serious DECLARE IT.

If you are married and want more, STEP UP.

Cook her dinner, you get the groceries, absorb some of daily life from her and it will come back. Make her know her worth to you all the time, not just when it works for you.

Put her on that pedestal, and keep her there!

Communicate everything. If you are not open and real about things how are you ever going to achieve them?

Stop saying she is too vanilla, she would not want that.

Give your partner some credit! If you make some changes she too will makes changes and you just might “evolve” to the very thing you crave!

Notice how I said you?

Being in a FLR does not mean your entire life is based on what she tells you to do.

You have a brain and yes you must use it.

You will learn the looks and cues to follow her lead. Words at many times are not even needed.

Pay attention to her, learn to anticipate her needs, because I am sure she knows yours.

In all honesty, most men are halfway there already, they just don't realize it.

If you have been called pussy whipped at any point, you are halfway there!

You do not need fetish, or BDSM to have a FLR. All of that is fluff and bells and whistles.

Of course they are some fun bells and whistles, but not needed.

Just remember guys, happy wife, happy life. Also, she makes the rules, don't base you and yours to someone else. Her rules might be different because she is in charge after all!

Now here are some chores/tasks for you this week to get you off on the right foot.

Tell 5 woman how smart or intelligent they are.

Open a door for a female 10 times., car or establishment.

If you are married or attached, take 7 chores from her and do them yourself.

Tell 3 women in your life how thankful you are for them.

Send me 1 email to tell me how it went!

 

 

 


10/3/2017 10:52:19 AM
ATTN local kinksters. This weekend is behind closed doors. 3 days of fetish and frolic. Oct 6,7,8
It is at the Arizonia riverpark inn. check their website for all the details
I hope to see you there!
BCDArizona.Org 

9/19/2017 1:35:30 PM

Let’s Talk about a fun topic today shall we?

Consent.

According to Google

, the definition of consent is:

noun
1. 1.
permission for something to happen or agreement to do something.
“no change may be made without the consent of all the partners”
synonyms:
agreement, assent, acceptance, approval, approbation; More

verb
1. 1.
give permission for something to happen.
“he consented to a search by a detective”
synonyms:
agree to, assent to, yield to, give in to, submit to; More

 

You know, doing the things I do, consent is paramount.

Everything needs to be discussed up front so that you can get the most out of our time together.

I will go over your limits, do’s and don’ts. I will also give you a safe word.

This is in place so you can take back the consent if things get to hard or intense.

Consent is not binding once given. It can be taken back as fast as it was given.

If consent was given yesterday, it does not mean consent applies to today.

Looks and clothing do not give consent. Wearing no clothes does not mean consent.

Pay attention guys, a woman can be spread eagle in front of you, naked like the day she was born, and you can not touch her unless she says “YES

Finger banging right in your face, and you can not do anything but sniff the damn air.

Yes, you might be so excited, it might be calling to you, but here is where you learn some self control.

Even if she appears to be teasing the hell out of you, it seems that she just wants it, you can’t touch her.

If you cross a line without consent, you violate and assault them.

Again, a small reminder, you are entitled to nothing, even if your hard phallus is trying to tell you otherwise!

You do not, record, video, touch, insert, violate, probe or take anything from ANYONE without permission. PERIOD

If the things I write about offends you, freaks you out, screams insanity to you, just sits in your ass sideways, remember, I have consent.

Let that sink in for a minute…..

They said yes to being kicked in the balls, yes to chastity, yes to cock sucking, yes to my strap on cock, yes to being tied up, yes to being whipped, beaten and flogged.

Yes to being dressed up like a gurl and feminized, yes to licking the soles of my dirty feet.

The biggest and best yes to whatever I want, whatever brings me pleasure and makes me smile with joy and happiness. Yeah, there is that too!

The wonderful, beautiful, and bizzare things that happens between two consenting adults is magical.

Any adult can consent.

Your title or job in life does not exempt or negate your ability to consent to playtime.

Nor does your job or title affect how I play once consent is given.

Meaning, I don’t care if you are a Doctor, Lawyer, Teacher, Priest, Rocket Scientist, burger flipper, CEO, President, Republican, Democrat and so on.

See this post, The Dominatrix Blows your Mind

.

In closing, even if you yourself would not consent to any of the above mentioned activities, does not mean someone else won’t, because they do.

People are fun, different, alternative, and freaky. “Some people” should probably get used to that concept, m’kay? [Smiles]

 

 


8/9/2017 12:47:13 PM

One of the phrases I hear damn near daily is, I want to try this, or do that, but I am not gay, or bi. I’m straight!

The other phrase is I am not sub but, or I am a Dom., but……..[Eye roll]

I feel like kicking some boxes today, and burning some stereotyped labels.

Lets use our own minds today, shall we? I insist!

Are ya ready?

I’m going deep, m’kay?

Did you know that you do not have to be a Dom/Domme to want to kick some ass?

You can be just a Sadist

You can be a Dom/Domme who likes to receive pain.

You can be just a masochist

You can like both pleasure and the pain

You can be a Sadomasochist.

You do not have to be submissive to like discipline.

You can be a submissive who likes to deliver pain.

You can be kinky without being Dom/Domme or Sub.

You can enjoy sex without feeling bad

You can like ass play and not be gay.

You can suck a dick and still be straight.

You can be just a top for kink play

You can be just a bottom for kink play

Being a Dom/Domme does not mean you are only strong.

Being a Dom/Domme does not mean you are not caring.

Being a Submissive does not mean you are weak.

Being Submissive does not mean you are submissive to EVERYONE

Primal urges are natural.

Being kinky does not make you a deviant.

Loving certain fetishes does not devalue you.

What does devalue you is trying to put people in special boxes, affixing a label to them, to suit your own psyche.

Whatever freak flag you have in your own closets, fly that bitch high.

Fuck the labels, Do YOU!

FYI, just in case you might be unaware, when you are with me, no labels or titles of any kind matter.

All I see is a stripped bare, vulnerable human animal. A blank canvas.

It is my theater after all.

The only label/title that matters then is “yes Mistress”. [Smiles]

 


7/21/2017 12:38:03 PM
I accidentally mass deleted my email........ I need my tucson CBT guy to message me!

7/16/2017 12:58:08 PM

I have been a Dominatrix, for a minute or two. [laughs]

Over the years I have made profiles on many sites, alt, collarspace, fetlife, and so on.

I list some of my interest on these profiles, like humiliation, sissy and feminization games, you get the idea.

Of course, there are the acronyms for others things that I enjoy.

My list includes, N.T. As well as S.O.T, JOI, and CEI. Some other fun favorites are C.B.T. And G.S.

They always say and ask the same thing, ‘I know that N.T. is nipple torture. I know that J.O.I. is jack off instruction, and C.E.I is cum eating instruction.

The one I do not know is S.O.T?

Surprise, it means Strap on Training!

You know, ass violation, butt play, anal sphincter training, and anal insertions!

Now you know I wield a cock, and I am not afraid to use it.

Strapping it on, or ramming a cock baton, I will rock your world! [Evil giggles]

Do you know what time it is?

Will it be lube or spit?

Bend over boys! It is time to tap that ass!


7/10/2017 10:39:07 AM
First, i get a lot of email, if you write just a hi, or how are you in an email, chances are I will delete it.

I have a mind, and if you are not capable of using yours we will not be a match. Shortcuts and lazy subs are NOT tolerated!


Second, I have on my profile that I want to meet all kinds of people, including Dom men. No, this is not so you can Dominate me, get over yourself. Stop sending me messages telling me to put my arms behind my neck or back and message you.

NEWSFLASH, you can talk to people without asserting yourself so much.  Its called being a normal civilized human. Conversation, go figure.

Third, i am not looking for a husband at this time. Stop asking for a wife on the first damn email. Lets try and be a little more realistic, M'kay?

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Autonita
 
 Age: 37
 Nashville, Tennessee