I am a sexually dominant man, in search of a woman who is submissive, or interested in exploring submissiveness. I’m looking for emotional and personal compatibility, as well as mutual attraction and compatibility of D/s interests; I have hopes of a real relationship, as well as sexual encounters. I think that good communication is essential to building a relationship. For me in D/s consensuality is not only an ethical requirement but part of the turn-on. I am not interested in blood, scat, or inflicting severe pain. 

Other than D/s suff: I’m smart, funny, quick, kind, successful, financially secure, not normally so fond of adjectives; tall, slim, very fit (I exercise frequently); well-educated, well-read, cultured, sophisticated;  thoughtful, sensitive, caring; politically aware, and on most issues quite liberal. Like 95% of the population, I have a better than average sense of humor (except in my case it’s true). I read the New Yorker (but don’t trust in God or take short views), love words and poetry, bake my own bread, root for the underdog (other things equal).