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I am Miss Dawn, a 34 year old Professional, Lifestyle and Financial Dominatrix. I have been in the BDSM Scene since I was 18 years old. I have experience from both the submissive side and Dominant side which I find invaluable.
I am based in Shropshire and have access to many dungeons in the West Midlands for our play to take place, I do not have my own facility to session from. I do charge a fee for my sessions, this covers cost of venue hire, my time, the upkeep of my toys used and aftercare supplies. Prices for this are available upon request. I only work Monday to Friday between 10am and 2pm, I have a family and children so your session may be postponed at short notice.
I offer many aspects of bdsm ranging from spanking to strap on play, role play to sensual tie and tease and everything in between. I DO NOT offer hard sports, adult baby (nappies) anything illegal.
You can contact me via email, phone or Kik (missdawn1983@outlook.com, 07399505166, Kik - missdawn1983 ) I do not answer withheld numbers and I do not answer the phone when my children are around, I will however respond to text messages.
If you do wish to book a session with me I ask for the following information to speed up the booking process..
A message detailing times and dates, your likes and dislikes, any limits, can you be marked or not, would you be happy with pictures taken (they will be shown to you at the end of the session and any you do not want used will be deleted, all others will be sent on to you) are there any health issues I need to know about? (Are you diabetic, had a heart attack, disabled?) Once I have this information we can then get your session booked and I will plan your session around the information provided.
The main venue I use is based in dudley, there is parking and the club is easily accessible. I expect you to arrive at least 10 minutes before your appointment, fresh and clean, I will not session with someone if they have been drinking or I feel they are on drugs.
When you arrive, I will greet you outside of the club, we go in and can have a Tea/coffee at the bar (not free) we will discuss if you would like to make any changes to your session and safewords etc, then I will take you to the dungeon and we will have your session. Once finished you will be offered a drink and biscuits, aftercare will be observed (ointment applied to bottoms if needed) you will be invited to get dressed and we can go to the bar for a drink before you head on your way when you are ready.
Once you are home I will also expect a message letting me know you have arrived there safely, and I will message you after to make sure you are alright.
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So I have had 3 meetings with My delightful sub smallcock. And so far he has done nothing short of amaze Me and make Me very proud! When we first met he was shy and nervous self proclaimed wimp, our first session I took things slowly, we went at his pace and he did really well!
Next session we upped the intensity a bit and My darling smallcock took 6 of the best! For someone who says they are a wimp that was an amazing achievement! To say I was very proud of him is an understatement!
During our last session I included some CBT and a bit harsher on the Cp! I am very proud of you My darling and I look forward to helping you grow as a sub over our time together!
And thank you for making Me so proud! |
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SOME RECENT FEEDBACK...
This is a true and honest account of my first ever sub/Dom session by smallcock.
I stumbled across Miss Dawn by accident but am I glad I did, I like many of you out there have watched the videos browsed the pictures and tugged whilst doing so.
I have done little bits on line with others but I wanted to tell you about my first ever real-time session on Friday.
Once I had done the initial message with Miss Dawn she truly took control, but I immediately felt I trusted her, I felt safe and unlike hundreds of the so called pro dommes on the net, money was not the foont of every message, yes it’s her job she has to make a living but blooming hell is she good at it.
All day she was asking what I wanted from the session she wanted me to enjoy it and enjoy it I did.
We arranged for a meeting in a club I was a little apprehensive of this but Miss reassured me and told me once I was there to text her and she would meet me and that’s exactly what she did.
When I first saw her, her pictures do not do her justice by the way she is more gorgeous more beautiful than I ever imagined.
She led me into our play room, she sensed my nerves and again put me at ease, before ordering me to strip to whatever I felt comfortable with, I wanted to go naked so I did. We agreed a safe word, I was apprehensive but also I knew Miss Dawn was ensuring I was safe.
Miss cuffed me, and hooded me this was the first time this had happened to me and my tiny cock was getting excited, Miss ordered me onto the floor and I was ordered to kiss her feet whilst wearing beautiful shoes, I kissed, I licked I sucked the heel I was where I wanted to be at the feet of a beautiful sexy strong goddess. She then made me remove her shoes and kiss her nylon clad sweaty feet oh my I was in ecstasy. I was allowed up to the knee, sucking her toes was bliss her feet are amazing.
Then miss advised me I was going to be spanked I asked for light, I was cuffed over the spanking bench and after a few hand swats Miss said I was doing better than she thought and started to increase the force as well as starting to use implements, I loved it the harder she hit the more I wanted, but I never once felt scared, threatened or anything other than it’s where I wanted to be.
Miss them said my pathetic little dick needed so CBT and I thought this would be when I used my safe word, but let me tell you her feet are still as delicate when they are kicking your balls
or standing on your cock, miss advised me she was really proud of my pain threshold I felt so happy.
I was then back over the spamming bench for more spanking and nipple twisting she also spanked my cock.i have seen the pictures I was a nice crimson.
Miss then offered me the ultimate reward to be allowed to worship her beautiful ass, I relished this opportunity and kissed and licked for all I was worth Miss also gave me the option to stroke my pathetic cock which I did while nose deep in her ass I came all over the place, Miss got me a wipe and that was it.
I got dressed, we chatted she gave me s chocolate bar and allowed me to go after a cuddle.
She is definitely not the shouting man hating type she was gentle but firm, harsh but fair we agreed a safeword but there was no way I was using it, I was smitten I would have done anything she asked and I would have let her do anything to me and I mean anything I felt that safe.
My advice is if like me you were a dreamer make your dream a reality as Miss Dawn will make your dream so special.
The only problem is I have stupidly told Miss I will not cum again until I am in her presence again and whilst writing this journal my hands have wondered, but I haven’t cum.
Miss I will be back very very soon
Smallcock xx |
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Please remember
If you message Me to book a session I need details..
A rough time and date
How long for
Likes, dislikes
"I want humiliation and worship" is not enough detail, what kind of humiliation? Sph? Age? appearance? What kind of worship? Feet? Ass? Etc
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My birthday on nov 22nd
Trying to decide what I should do to celebrate! |
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I wanted to write a note about My journey from that shy 18 year old submissive to the 33 year old Dominatrix I am today, I want people to know what helped shape and make Me the person I am today in the BDSM community.
As I’ve stated many a time, I was 18 years old, a shy quiet girl, back in the days of dial up internet that disconnected you after two flipping hours, back when mIRC chat rooms were where you could chat to like minded individuals. I was online one evening and stumbled across a chatroom for Fetish Friends, so I joined to see what it was all about, the only words I spoke were to say hello to those who had greeted Me and then I sat watching the chat flow. Some of the time it was boring mundane chat about work and how peoples days had gone, other times there was kink, and discussions about up coming events. I visited often and researched what I saw in chat, I already knew I enjoyed being tied up and light spanking from my latest relationship. But the more I researched the more I identified Myself as submissive, and discovered more things that I wanted to try and things that I didn’t want to try at all. I started chatting more when I came into the chat room and started to make friends as well. I got invited to local events and attended a few munches. It helped Me get to know people and to learn more through actual discussion. I started to come out of My shell a bit more and started to flirt and join in with banter in the chat room.
Soon I was approached by a Dominant male who I had befriended and He asked if I would like to play with Him, I agreed and We arranged a day and time to meet, I set up a safe call with a submissive friend, I would call them when I arrived and once things had finished and again when I was home safe. We played a few times, I discovered I cry during Corporal Punishment, but I wasn’t sure why, I enjoyed it a lot and I found I enjoyed bondage too, We also discovered I was quite bratty and had a temper if I didn’t get my own way. We eventually drifted apart because the travel time for Him to get to me wasn’t easy and eventually He found a local submissive near to Him, We remained friends but eventually lost contact.
After the break down of My first Master/sub relationship I had a good idea of what I did and didn’t enjoy so I felt more confident going out and meeting with others. I still spent most evenings in the chat room as well. I met up with a few different male Dominants and had both good and bad experiences, one of which was being tied to a tree and belted, and because I cried and He didn’t like it He used the buckle end of His belt on Me. I never saw Him again and He was banned from the chat room. I also met a Mistress who punished Me for safe wording during Our play. These two bad experiences alone made Me nervous of meeting with others, and would later come into play again with how I treat My submissives.
Soon I visited a fetish event in the Midlands with a submissive friend, we got on really well and we soon started a vanilla relationship together, during which time we would switch for each other. I soon discovered I preferred to be the Top and he preferred to be the bottom. It worked for us. Eventually as our relationship progressed I collared him, and our vanilla relationship grew as well.
My kink life went a bit quiet for a while, I moved to the Midlands and enjoyed kink when I could. Then about 10 years ago I suddenly had more time on My hands and found I could enjoy kink again. I made more new friends and even did some Double Domme play sessions before taking a break again. Eventually about 4 ish years ago I met and made friends with a girl who was offering Professional Domination, in time I became her in house safe call, I would let in the submissives, offer them a drink and get them into the playroom before this girl would then go and carry out the session. My shyness and lack of confidence had grown by now and I had never thought of offering Domination Professionally before. But while working with this girl My spark for kink came back and My confidence grew a little. We started offering Double Domme sessions and although I wasn’t as vocal as her it worked. We were asked to help take part in Double Domme events at a local Dungeon, and had quite a few regulars who I thought a lot of (and still do)
We eventually went our separate ways, and I branched out on My own, I had been offering solo sessions for a while so knew I could do it. I would hire a local dungeon to host My sessions from and still do to this day.
So how has this all helped me to become the Lady I am today you ask? Well, after I discovered as a submissive how things felt, what it was like to be on the receiving end of a Cp session and the emotions I had running through Me I have found it helps Me to know and understand what My submissives who visit Me are going through, I feel I have the knowledge there and can offer advice to the novice submissive because I Myself have been there, I know what I went through during my play, I know how I felt, I know what I needed after and so can offer and guide My submissives through it based on My own experiences. I also know that after My two bad experiences I never want to make one of My submissives feel the way I did, I would never punish a sub for safe wording, safe words are there for a reason so the sub knows they can stop at any time they feel uncomfortable or things are getting too much for them. It is not some trophy reward to brag about if you get a sub to safe word, that means you pushed them too far and they felt they had no choice but to put a stop to it all. I also decided that yes there may be some out there that enjoy extreme pain during Cp but the buckle end of a belt is not something I would ever use on a sub. I also decided that I would talk to my submissives before during and after our play, I want to know they are happy and enjoying themselves and I want to know that they feel safe in my hands.
Over my years in the scene I have seen many a shocking thing, iv seen people use toys and not have much understanding of them, iv seen sub’s hurt because the Top has not known what they were doing with the equipment that was in their hands, iv seen a massive lack of after care, I have seen sounds forcefully rammed into a sub’s cock with no regard for what untold damage may be caused, iv seen sub’s played with then tossed out once play is finished, I have spoken to many a submissive who has felt upset, low, depressed even because they didn’t think they had pleased their Top because the Top in question was ignoring them. I could go on!
I dont ever want My submissives to feel like that, I have an “open door” policy, I want My sub’s to feel they can talk to Me, tell Me what is bothering them, send Me a massive long email detailing the ins and outs of what is on their mind, tell Me if I have done something they didn’t like, or something iv done that they really did. I dont want My submissives to feel they are bothering Me or will anger Me because they need to talk to Me. I will always reply, and if I am busy I will always acknowledge their message and tell them I know it is there and I will reply ASAP!
So there you have it, that’s Me and My journey and how I became the person I am today |
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Apologies to those messaging me, I dont always have time to get on and read & reply, I also have a habit of reading and forgetting to reply |
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What its like to be a Pro Domme
Iv been asked a few times
"What do you do?"
"Why do you charge so much you don't really do a lot"
"What's it like?"
"You just spank men"
Do you want to know what its like? What its really REALLY like?
I apologize now as I may kill the fantasy that your pro domme/ fin domme/ Mistress is some all powerful being, who should be carried around on a golden throne by her submissive but in all honesty its not like that at all.
Go get a cuppa, settle into a comfy chair and read on.
So yes I'm a Mistress, a Pro Domme, a Financial Domme, and it may sound glamorous, but in reality its not.
I'm one of these Mistresses who likes to put thought into my sessions, I like to find out about the submissive who is going to be serving me, be it for only one session or for a number of sessions. I like to know what makes them tick, what they like, what they dislike, where they would like to go during our session. So phoning or messaging me saying "are you free in an hour, I want you to fuck my arse" does not give me a lot to go on. Same goes for when I ask you your limits and you say "I have none, I'm into whatever Mistress wants to do to me" that don't work, if you tell me that & turn up for a session you will be spending a good portion of your session time that you are paying for talking to me so I can find out what you didn't tell me in a message.
Then there is the dirty side, I clean a lot of bodily fluid up at the end of sessions, piss, cum, spit, shit! Yes if you ask me for anal then there is bound to be a bit of shit! That's fine, I expect it, your having something stuck up your arsehole and its where you get rid of your human waste from, so I know its not going to be sparkling clean. That's fine. But what I don't expect is for you to turn up after having requested anal and then you present your arse to me caked in shit. I expect proper anal hygiene to have been observed before you attend a session with me. If you shit on the floor while I'm fucking you up the arse fine, I'll call a short recess, ask you to visit the bathroom while I clean up the floor & then we can carry on. What I dont expect is an arse covered top to bottom in shit, so much that its stinking out the play area, if you arrive and your arse is not clean then I will tell you to go clean it.
Yes there is a dirty side, iv had water sports sessions, iv had spitting sessions, once my submissive has gone to shower I will clean up, its not glamorous being down on my hands and knees, mopping up piss and spit & cum or even shit off the floor.
I'm not dressed in session clothes 24/7 either, so please bare this in mind when you request a session "right now". Sometimes I'm in jogging bottoms & trainers, I'm at gym, I'm out doing food shopping. I don't walk round tesco dressed in leather ready to drop my shopping & head to a dungeon for a session.
This might surprise you but I AM HUMAN. I actually get ill, I don't wear make up 24/7, I do wear jogging bottoms and sweat tops, I wear fluffy slippers and I do like the odd day off from kink.
I also have a family, so I am out doing school runs, I take my dog out for walks, I have to do the food shopping, I have to cook, I have to clean.
So no its not a glamorous life. But its how I chose to live mine.
As for "why do you charge so much you don't do anything"
No your right, the cum cleans its self up off the floor or off my boots, the spit cleans its self up off the floor, the piss just vanishes from the floor and the towels that I used to mop it up with just wash themselves. And the dildos that get covered in lube and shit just wash themselves. The used condoms just put themselves in the bin.
The toys I use in a session control themselves, they do all the work for me, the flogger swings itself, the cane bites into your arse on its own, the rope wraps itself around you. I just sit in the corner watching do I?
As for my rates, why are they so high? Because I have to factor in play space hire, the upkeep of the toys I use, my time, travel, the thought and effort I put into every session to make sure you enjoy every second of it and leave on a high having enjoyed your time with me, hopefully leaving you wanting more.
It was suggested to me that I charge £7.20 an hour because I'm swinging a flogger its not taxing and does not require a lot of skill or effort.
Oh how wrong could you be? Just swinging a flogger and hoping for the best will get you nowhere and could cause unknown damage to your submissive, you have to make sure you don't hit vital organs, the kidneys, the liver etc. You need to know where you are aiming, and if you don't know how to use the toy to start with then I pitty the poor sub on the receiving end.
I saw someone use a bullwhip once, she made them and did demos on how to use them, I thought it looked easy, then I picked one up, I started off with a cushion on a chair and tried hitting that, nearly every shot missed, if that had been a sub I could have seriously hurt them. I've seen others pick up whips and wrap it round and hit a sub in the stomach when aiming for their back. I have never felt so uncomfortable watching play as I did at that moment in time.
The same can be said for sounding. You are sticking a solid metal rod down a penis. You can not see where it is going, so you need to be careful. Stabbing it in and out of the cock as fast as you can and stirring it round like your mixing a cake batter is not what I would consider SAFE, SANE OR CONSENSUAL. And if you see blood upon withdrawing the sound then for Christ sake stop don't stick another one in and start again. What if you puncture or tear the urethra? What if you stab into their bladder? "So what they requested it" is not the words of a true Mistress and that kind of attitude really pisses me off.
I don't care who you are how good you think you are, if you can't play SAFE can't be SANE and CONSENSUAL, you do not treat a submissive like a toy to use as you see fit.
At the end of the day when you are a Pro Domme the sub is in control. Your being paid to live out their fantasies, you are being paid to Top them but they are the ones with all the control, at any minute they or any submissive can call a stop to your play by using a safe word. That is the power right there. Yes you might think your in control but you are not!
You might think they are there to serve you and please you but that's bollocks, you are there to serve and please them when they are paying for it. I suggest some of you insta Dommes and you "so called" Pro Dommes remember this, pull your head out of your arse and maybe do a bit more research before offering real time sessions.
I've gone off on a bit of a rant, I'll draw this to a close.
In short no being a Domme is not all glitz and glamour, its a lot of cleaning up and planning and at the end of the day we are all human, we all make mistakes sometimes, as long as we are big enough to own up to them then all the better.
Just be SAFE, be SANE and above all make sure everything is CONSENSUAL
And have fun! Don't be so serious!
Much love |
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Me myself and I
So I class myself as a Dominant, it didn't come easy, in fact as I state on many of my profiles I started out as a submissive, so I'm going to tell you a story about how I got to where I am today. You might enjoy it, you might not but its me, no airs no graces just the cold hard truth.
Are we sitting comfortably, then I'll begin...
I was an 18 year old girl, it was a time when internet chatrooms were a big thing and dialup internet was a pain in the ass.
I use to spend my evenings sat in the mIRC chatrooms and one evening stumbled across a fetish one. I didn't talk at first I just observed, I researched some of the things they chatted about and realized actually I like that as well. The more I researched the more I identified myself as submissive. Eventually I plucked up the courage to speak in the chatroom, and I began to make friends, I started flirting with people, and eventually worked up the courage to attend some munches.
After a while I got to become really good friends with a sub guy, we chatted a lot outside of the chatroom and then he invited me to a fetish event local to him, so I traveled to his, and we attended this event.
Time moved on and we started a relationship, we dabbled in switching for each other and this was when I discovered I preferred to be Dominant rather than submissive. I eventually collared my sub and we had an amazing lifestyle relationship as well as a vanilla one, but we kept the two separate.
A couple of years later I met a Mistress and started helping her out by being an in house safe call for her during her sessions. She was younger than me and I grew to think a lot of her.
Although I had played with others my shyness from my vanilla life would creep in and I never had the confidence to go Pro, I didn't think sub's would want to pay to see a Mistress who wasn't a harsh shouty bitch, but working with this other Mistress, offering Double Domme sessions gave me the kick up the arse I needed and so I took the plunge, I started having to work from hotels because I didn't want to mix vanilla life and kink by having sub's visit my home. I eventually found kink friendly venues and dungeons to use and that's what I use to this day.
What have I learnt over my 16 years in this kinky world..
Well iv learnt that I am Dominant in the kink world but in my vanilla life I'm still rather submissive.
Iv learnt that not all submissives want a shouty harsh bitch as a Mistress.
Iv learnt that I wouldn't be where I am today if my "friend" hadn't given me the kick up the arse I needed.
Iv learnt to respect other Mistresses, and some sub's could learn this too. I won't session with you if your owned, unless your owner has said its OK, if you have booked in with another Mistress but also want to see me I will not session with you until the other Mistress has finished with you, I dont want to tread on anyone's toes.
I have learnt Confidentiality is very important, when your a Pro Mistress you get gentlemen from all walks of life message you, one day it can be Joe blogs from round the corner, the next it could be the local MP looking for a release from his stressful job. If you want to succeed in this game you can't go running down to the local coffee shop and blabbing to anyone who will listen that you just had an MP in your dungeon dressed up as a baby while you put him over your knee and spanked him. It won't do him any favours and it won't do your reputation much good either.
Iv learnt that its not just clients who want Confidentiality, other Mistresses and Masters want it too, they may share something with you,be it about their professional life, or their private life, they are expecting that to be kept secret, they are trusting you with that information, it does you no favours to go blabbing it to all of your friends.
Iv learnt that you will make mistakes, you will get the odd wrap round when you cane, whip, flog someone, you will say you can do something but really you dont have a clue and you hope you can just wing it.
Iv learnt it is better to own up to your mistakes and to be honest and say when you dont know how to do something, I'd much rather lose a customer than send one away broken because I did something wrong.
Iv learnt that you can't please everyone, that people will always judge you, even those who have never met you. You will be judged for how you dress, how you look, what your Domination style is, how you got into the lifestyle, what you offer, what you dont offer, if you swear, if you dont swear, if your shy, if your bold and outgoing. Everything! You will be judged on everything.
Iv learnt that it is OK, because there is always going to be that one childish person out there who wants to see you fail, they dont want you to do better than them, yet they will be the ones out there bigging up the "sisterhood" and "women empowering women" and all that other mushy stuff, when secretly they are out sharing your secrets, they are out doing everything they can to knock you down.
I learnt to ignore it, I have moved on. Gone are the days where the vanilla me would sit and cry while more shit is flung my way. Gone are the days where I gave a shit what people said about me behind my back.
I'm here, I am Miss Dawn, I am a bbw, I cuss and swear so much even the sailors blush, but I am me, no airs or graces, take me as you find me. And if that is not to your liking then that is okay too. But just because you dont like me dont drag me down with your shitty attitude.
Dont accuse me of shit I didn't do, dont listen to secondhand gossip and let that be the basis for the opinion you form of me.
If iv never met you I can't form an opinion of you, same goes for if you have never met me dont let the rumours you have heard help you create an opinion of me.
I'm not actually that bad, I like a laugh. I like my wine and I love chocolate. I have a childish sense of humour and I'm not a pompous bitch when I talk to submissives. We are all human, we all make mistakes, let's just move on from them.
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Subdrop is real!
So I had an amazing session this week with a charming young man. He took quite a harsh beating during our session.
During the session he wandered off into subspace, now during his visits to subspace the tell tale signs are his only spoken words are "yes Mistress" its quite slowly spoken, and softly too almost a whisper, I can ask him anything and he will simple reply "Yes Mistress"
Another tell tale sign is he goes weak on his feet, his head lolls to one side and he sort of bobs there. I help to support his weight if he is stood on the St Andrews Cross. And I talk to him. Ask him if he is OK? And generally keep a close eye on him.
After his session we went out to lunch (his treat). While walking around he went very quiet, paled and light headed, I had to support him while we walked until we were seated.
Now after our session, I made sure he had a drink and I usually have some biscuits with me, to bring up those blood sugars.
I always want to make sure my sub's are well in themselves before I let them leave me.
I wouldn't be able to forgive myself if I sent a sub away and they had an accident because I hadn't provided proper after care.
I have heard of a few who don't believe in sub space, from both Dom and sub.
Having been there myself I know it is real. Iv never had a really big drop, but then again it has been nearly 15 years since I last submitted so maybe I just forget.
But sub drop is real. And I am glad that this submissive had offered to take me out to lunch so that I could be there for him during his hard drop. "I'm dropping like a sledge hammer" were his words. I have not seen him like that before, but it was an intense session.
So I say to you Dom's out there, don't forget the aftercare, and Pros please PLEASE make sure your submissive is fully with it before you let them behind the wheel of a car or send them on their way.
Lord knows what would have happened had I not been with my boy today!
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Confidentiality and Kink
So there are a lot of us who kink, some who are quite open about it in their day to day lives and others who prefer to keep it quiet for whatever reason.
When working as a Professional Dominatrix you have to be aware of this, you need to make sure your priority is client confidentiality. You do not want to be telling your mate Susan down at Costa coffee (other coffee shops available) all about "big hairy bill" and what he got up to when he came to see you, you dont know who will be listening to you and if Bill finds out, well that's a black mark against your name, because bill will share with others "dont go see her she was talking with her friends about me out in public"
There are clients out there who work in high profile jobs, if it gets out that "freaky Freddy". Enjoys a good caning on his days off from being "insert important job here" then that can create all untold grief for him and for you.
And it's not just clients who want confidentiality, other kinky folk do too. If you have a piece of private information shared with you, it is not your place to go blabbing and telling everyone else, that is highly disrespectful and down right rude and petty to be honest. And just shows you up as being untrustworthy and a gossip.
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| Age: 26 |
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